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Title: I guess Bm found a new use for the last few months of cs
Post by: stepmomtwo1 on Sep 16, 2004, 09:48:19 AM
Her son (from her second marriage) was talking on the bus yesterday that his mom bought a tanning bed for their house. :o I know she was always pale as can be and latley she has been pretty tan but she won't go out in public much because she's gotten fat since she quit smoking. So now she can tan at home. I'm sure she's fretting when the cs ends in 11 more months. I'm wondering how she will afford to lease her car the next time since she gets a new one every two years and she won't have cs to pay for the next one.
Title: Man shopping perhaps??
Post by: KAT on Sep 16, 2004, 01:53:35 PM
Ours has one of those so now she's back doing the trip/fall routine. She started last month since you know it takes a while to get to court. I guess she figures she'll have a few lump sum payments coming when she gets her last private welfare check 361 days from now. I turned her over to the state insurance fraud investigation unit...might even get a reward! HA!

KAT
Title: Kat....I almost forgot we're in a race...but I might win by 10 days!
Post by: stepmomtwo1 on Sep 16, 2004, 03:44:15 PM
We have 351 more days until were done....so lets start planning our "We'll have money party" Hey we'll need it too. Yeah for US!!
Title: I don't know about you Kiddo but...
Post by: KAT on Sep 17, 2004, 04:36:18 AM
The past few years have been a living hell. Financially, emotionally and PHYSICALLY. So while we have been healing emotionally and will recover financially next year I've decided to fix the lines on my face that this stress has caused. I'm getting a FACE LIFT! hahahahaha!!!
But hey, let's throw a party in there too! How about tropical? A quiet place that has sweet strong drinks with little umbrellas, good looking waiters & free massages? :) Bring a picture of your cash cow too & I'll bring the dart board!
*HUGS*
KAT
Title: OMG I have a picture thats perfect and I just got it!
Post by: stepmomtwo1 on Sep 17, 2004, 09:28:47 AM
Dh's uncle just gave us a bunch of old pictures from dh's grandpas house (grandpa died five years ago and he finally gave us family pictures but not what we wanted) and in one of the picture frames,behind another picture was a wedding picture of dh and the ex! I about died! She even looked like a crow when she was 19! Bleach blond hair with roots on her wedding day!

So I'll save the picture for another year and I can bring along our bows (we all shoot archery) and give you a few lessons. Believe me I'd love to plant an arrow between that womans eyes! Oops....did I say that out loud? :)

I know what you mean about financial hell. We paid all our bills this week and have $135 left and thats for food,gas and the kids school pictures that are next week. All while she chooses not to work and most likley spends a lot of time in her new "tanning bed". I think thats what really amazes me about this whole thing. Here we are trying and her she is living off us! When we are done with cs we will use that money to pay off our truck faster and then we will have over $700 a month extra cash! Guess that will pay a few rounds of drinks.

I know I'd love a little botox and Lord knows I need it.
Title: RE: OMG I have a picture thats perfect and I just got it!
Post by: wendl on Sep 26, 2004, 08:35:32 AM
lmao don't you love how these woman live of the cs that is SUPPOSE to support the kids.

BM quit her job (best job she has had in 4yrs) and is going back to school AGAIN.

Hmm funny she just bought a new car, going to school quit her job yet OSS who needs glasses BAD, hasn't had any since at least JUNE.

God what would she ever do if dh lost his job and couldn't pay the cs support cuz I wouldn't pay the cs to her I have my own child to support (whom I do not get support for)

But I guess this woman thinks, bikes and toys etc are MORE important than glasses for her child. That would be like me saying oh my son doesn't need his seizure meds, cuz I really want a new outfit, LIKE I would ever do that NOT my son and his needs are more importants than my WANTS.

:)



**These are my opinions, they are not legal advice**