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Title: what's the best shared custody scheduele
Post by: spinner on Jun 10, 2004, 09:03:50 PM
Hi,
My ex and I are finaly getting to sense, anyway, shared custody 50/50 might be a reality so here is my question:

what's the best supposed 50/50 shared custody for a 3 year old?
1 week each, 1 month each, 6 month, ..... ????

Thanks
Title: RE: what's the best shared custody scheduele
Post by: hisliltulip on Jun 11, 2004, 02:28:35 PM
I would do, MT and every other weekend for one, and TTH and everyother weekend for the other.  Changing to one week on one week off once child starts school.

This is just my opinion though.

SS had one week on, one week off from age three until five (temp order), which was hard on him when he was smaller.  Now it is wed nights and every other weekend with his mom until he starts school.  Then it changes to T and W nights with Mom and every other weekend.

We are dreading this change.  It's a LOT of moving around while he is in school.  It probably would have worked better when he was younger.