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After weeks of phone tag (thanks to BM still refusing to let DH call SD's cellphone), SD called. Dh asked her about prom and graduation. He talked to her about our visit coming up and then ...he told her that she was going to be a big sister.

After she shook off the shock, she was very happy and excited. What a relief! She asked to talk to me, which she hasn't done since before she turned 14. She asked me all sorts of questions and said she was looking forward to coming up this summer to help pick out baby things.

My initial guess about how she would handle it was that she would be happy but after she told her mom and her mom put her evil spin on it, SD will have a change of heart. I hope I'm wrong and just enjoying this moment right now.

Thanks to all of you for all the support and advice over the past 13 years. I don't know how we could have made it through without you.

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Yeah..that is great! Hopefully when she comes and away from BM you will have a great visit.