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Title: Formerly aboused mother seeks advice
Post by: parentaswell on Aug 04, 2009, 12:20:47 PM
A few weeks ago - I took my sons father to court for child support for our 4 year old. I have him all week and some weekends. I was granted childsupport by the court and now he has filed for full custody of our son. He has called DCF and has made alligations that I am a drunk and that there is alcohol abuse in the household. ( i live with my parents- for now)
I rarely drink. Our son is always well taken care of. I work everyday. He's in pre-school. He's a well mannered kid, well fed, loved, cuddled......... (the list goes on and on)
I left my sons father because he was abusive. Mentally, emotionally, physically. I asked him for financial help numerous times and he wouldn't give me any assistance. He would only buy our son things if he was with our son. All of those things are still kept with him at his house.
I have primary custody of our son.
I'm scared that he's going to take him from me. Is there any advice (serious) that I can get from anyone to help me keep my son?!?!?
My ex keeps telling me that I'm never going to see him again and that I'll be paying him.