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Title: Custody
Post by: dipper on Dec 19, 2017, 04:26:29 PM
Ruling today:  we have primary custody effective after New Year's.
Title: Re: Custody
Post by: ocean on Dec 19, 2017, 05:51:39 PM
Wow....what exactly does that mean? Visitation changing??  9 week wait for ruling in just crazy as usual....
Title: Re: Custody
Post by: dipper on Dec 20, 2017, 06:20:26 AM
Ocean, we will now have primary physical custody.   They will have visitation and joint legal.  Our son will only see child at our discretion and under our supervision.  Which, we have did that ourselves for two years.


This judge did not feel current joint custody rebutted mother's parental presumption but that the extreme issues of her own care and that of child warranted the rebuttal and a change was in the best interest of child.
Title: Re: Custody
Post by: MixedBag on Dec 20, 2017, 06:26:03 AM
Great news!
Title: Re: Custody
Post by: ocean on Dec 20, 2017, 05:34:25 PM
Great! Did mom's time change? You have primary is good for school, appointments but will it change mom's behavior?
Title: Re: Custody
Post by: dipper on Dec 20, 2017, 08:44:18 PM
The recommendation of judge is at least every other weekend for mom and one afternoon per week - that afternoon is to be their responsibility for transportation.   Also they will get two weeks in the summer.  I am sure they will either appeal to Supreme court or file a new motion in Juvenile and Domestic court.  I don't feel we can breathe easy yet....


Mom and grandma change to meet whatever is a negative against them but they usually go to another destructive behavior.  The only thing is they are getting much wiser on how to hide stuff.
Title: Re: Custody
Post by: tigger on Dec 23, 2017, 07:55:29 PM
But crazy can't be hidden forever. It has a way of bubbling up and out. And it looks like the judge is seeing it. He didn't make a quick, snap decision.