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Main Forums => Visitation Issues => Topic started by: sabor06 on May 01, 2006, 03:30:35 PM
Non-Custodial father does not want my daughter to attend Saturday preparation classes when he has them. Our divorce decree does not state he has to take them ok... but now her first communion falls on Father's day weekend.
When we divorced we alternated weekends we did not go by Divorce Decree, now he wants to go by Decree every 1st & 3rd weekend. My daughter does her first communion on June 17th, which I would have had them that weekend, but since it is Father's Day weekend he would have them 3 weekends in a row, now he wants to do 1st & 3rd which puts us back to he having them that weekend. My daughter (9) wants to do her 1st communion, in our family it is a BIG thing, he has never gone to church in the 12 yrs we were married, I was not married by church to him, which was one of our issues between us. He is rude and beligerent in regards to having her attend services. Any advice?
I would politely ask him to switch just Saturday with you.
And then I'd work with church for Plan B in case he says no.
I did ask he sarcastically said NO!
I would talk to the church about getting "Plan B" going.
My heart goes out to you. It's really sad that people can't cooperate better.