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Main Forums => Second Families => Topic started by: oklahoma on Sep 20, 2004, 08:21:43 AM
My husband talked with his ex last night--by some miracle everyone was home, so he spoke with his daughters also. (It is ALWAYS very difficult to get through to them.) He and BM talked for over an hour, and he convinced her to allow SDs to come to our home for the entire weekend :) She tried to put it off some more--wanted to wait for her attorney to draw up papers, go to court, something--but he convinced her it was all about the s and they are ready.
After the past 2 years, I am still not 100% sure it will happen. BM also said she needed to talk to her husband about it--who knows why, since he has almost no involvement in SDs lives and he lives with them! I think she will use him as an excuse to not let it happen. But for now we are planning on picking them up Friday afternoon :) They were last in our home July 25, 2002.
I really hope all goes well. Good Luck :)