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DH's job, while being steady and having decent medical/dental benefits... well, it doesn't pay well. He was denied raises for the past few years due to a couple injuries and some stress that was perceived poorly.

HOWEVER... Dh just got a $0.75/hour raise! That should just about cover the increase in visitation costs since SS abused the LO's.

On another note, if she will just sign the 8332 -- as required by court order we could file our taxes... getting over $3K back! I am pumped.

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That is great news 4honor!!!  

by the way, how are visitations working out?

**These are my opinions, they are not legal advice**

BM refuses to sign the 8332... and we cannot find a copy of the current child support order -- it was here the last time SS was here, though. Haven't seen it since Sept. So, now we HAVE to pay for a copy so we can file our taxes. Can't even prove she is against the court order without a copy of the order.

DH and SS' visitation is going well for them. SS actually called DH and asked him to come to one of his school events (there is a first time for everything).

Some people will do anything to be a royal pain in the *ss.  Well, whatever you have to pay for the copy of the order - you do need it and you will get back much more than it costs.  Around here I used to be able to call up J & D and just ask for one and they would mail it to me....I did see a sign the last time I went that a fee is charged now for subsequent copies of orders.

I am glad your ss seems to be making an effort at a new beginning.