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Messages - steven_eckhout

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South Dakota State Forum / RE: Special Alert for Fathers
« on: Dec 17, 2005, 03:17:44 PM »
that is messed up can they do this in any state my ex has taken of with my son recently I have bipolar but I am on medications the judge didnt realy say anything about it infact  my ex didnt show to the court hearing and my case was dismissed I havent seen my son for five months now I am fighting like hell to get him but every where I go I get the run around or they refuse to help this is my first and only child I didnt think this would happen to me and now that it has everyone treats me like a dead beat father or that I have no rights

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Idaho State Forum / RE: Father child custody cases in Idaho
« on: Dec 17, 2005, 03:03:28 PM »
I dont know what help this is  I am in colo my son is 19 months old and so far the courts have been totaly agianst me when we went to court she didnt bother to show up they called her at home and then she didnt do what they ordered us to do like the parenting classes  my case was disssmissed  shortly after that she left I havent seen my son in five months now rumors are she left state possibly the country no one knows anything and the courts are little help so are the cops  and family registry where I pay child support wont help everyone treats the father as if they have no rights what so ever they passed the law dead beat fathers law and now it's impossible to get help. like I said the courts they dont even listen to what you have to say I did everything the parenting classes dna testing everything and they let her walk away I should have won that on default I am currently fighting for full custody if they cant find her with in two weeks I get full custody but it has taken a year and her skiping for it to get this far

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Colorado State Forum / missing son
« on: Dec 17, 2005, 02:54:03 PM »
I am missing my son his mother just left with him with out notice nothing I have been in and out of court they dont do crap when we went to court she didnt show they actully called her at home I thought if she didnt show it was a default and I would win my case  I havent seen my son for five months now I am desperate I need help can anyone help me I am being treated like I have no rights as a father and Im getting the run around big time I dont know what to do please someone help me

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Dear Socrateaser / missing son I need your help please!!!
« on: Dec 19, 2005, 04:15:57 PM »
dear soc I was told to get ahold of yu I am desperate I need your help My ex took off with out any warning and tok my son I havent seen him in five months now I have been in and out of court but the judge is of no help she the judge just dosnt get it my ex didnt show to the hearing I thought I should win but instead it was dismissed I pay child support I have done all that the courts have asked or ordered for me to do she hasnt and has left the state possibly the country I am so lost dont know anyone to help me or where to begin I feel I cant trust the courts because they seemed to have it out for me from the get go I am attemting to file for full custody over my son but dont know what that can do for me with the courts being biest i was advised you could help please email me @ steven.eckhout @ centerpartners .com thank you

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Custody Issues / missising son
« on: Dec 17, 2005, 02:49:40 PM »
I am missing my son his mother has taken him she from what I hear is out of state or possibly the country I have been in and out of court and they are pointless when i was in court she didnt show they called her at home and then my case was dismissed I thought that when they didnt show it was a default I dont get it my son is 19 months old I am 35 this is my first and only child I am doing everything I am supose to do parenting classes paying child support even though I dont get to see him  and everyone treats me like I have no rights and I have to just deal with it I want my son I am so desperate what do I do can any one help me

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Father's Issues / RE: PLEASE!!! HELP ME
« on: Dec 19, 2005, 04:05:30 PM »
I live in colorado fort collins I went through social services and had a dna test done I came out 99.99% to being his father they advised me that my name is or will be placed on the birth certificate I also found out that once your name is on the certificat you have joint custody  courts gave me visitations every weekend  but they are of no help she some how got it dismissed we went to court she never showed up for the hearing and instead of it being a no fault they just tossed it aside and dismissed my case so I dont know who to trust I have her ss# and my sons I have been in touch with but cant trust her from what she has told me they could be either in kansas cali or texas may even be in mexico family regitry wont give any info on her child support checks they get from me other than she is getting them last I heard from her mother was that she married her boy toy and was headed for mexico then I was told they went on vacation and live here in colo but I dont know what to belive my heart and gut says there still here but I am so lost right now. my son needs special needs he has an oval shaped stomache like an egg so the acids eats everything up he dosnt digets food very well he needs his medications he was premie and neds alot f care and love she is only 22 has three children my son is her youngest  I know she dosnt give him the love and care he needs I dont know how much more I can take I have been looking for a pi and have filed for full custody on line  I dont know what else to do I pray to god every day  I keep having nightmares I am standing over his grave I cant sleep now I am a mess I love my son so much I have never beeen through this this is my only child never thought this would happen and then I am finding out about the concelation law I dont know all details on that but that's just wrong

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Father's Issues / RE: PLEASE!!! HELP ME
« on: Dec 17, 2005, 04:27:55 PM »
where is socs board how do I get there

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Father's Issues / PLEASE!!! HELP ME
« on: Dec 17, 2005, 03:59:30 PM »
I am 35  my son is 19 months he has been taken by his mother courts are of little help cops wiont do much and ss are useless wont give any info I know she still gets her cs checks cuse family registry has said that much  I fear she has left the state or country I have been in and out of courts but nothing last time went to court hearing she didnt show they called her at home then dismissed my case after that she left it's been five months since I have seen my son I am so angry with the system I have gotten the run around and dead end since day one can anyone help me find my son PLEASE I BEG YOU  I dont know how much more I can endure I am so lost  I have done everything paid my cs went to court took parenting clasees ordered by court which she didnt do but still has my son somewhere I am lost with out my son and I fear for his safty it's killing me inside  my son is premie he was born 6/6/04 beautifull boy 4 pounds 5 ounces 19 inches  named MARCUS ANHTONY he's my miracle and I dont want my son to think I have abandonded him I am fighting like hell but every where I go it's like I have no rights please if anyone can help me or know of anyone even if it's a private eye just to locate where my son is please email me @ steven.eckhout@centerpartners.com thank you

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Father's Issues / missing son need help
« on: Dec 17, 2005, 02:44:51 PM »
I need help I have been in and out of court to get custody over my son now my ex has left with him out of state possibly out of the country how do I get my son back can any one help me he is only 19 months old I am so desperate to find him the courts wont do much of anything I went to court she didnt show up so they called her at home  which I thought if she didnt show it's a default and then my case was dismisssed I have paid my child support faithfully and still do but no one not even family registry will give me info Im stuck Ineed help and so far i keep geting the run around like I have no rights  can anyone help

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