Sorry for the extended absence. Things have changed. She has retained a lawyer who sent me a letter indicating that she is filing for divorce. I've requested to put a parenting plan into affect but her response (Via phone, never in written format) is "I will get a protection order and petition for full custody." She does still allow our children to call me nightly but I'm considering not doing that anymore because both children tell me they feel like crying because they do not see me enough(She left on 07/17 and I've only seen our children twice). I also believe she is listening to the calls and coaching our children's responses. I really appreciate all the advise I've been given and feel like a coward for not pushing for more time.
These may not be a questions that someone could answer but here goes.
Do I push for more visits along with overnights and risk that she will get some type of protection order as well as full custody?
Do I stop or reduce the the before bed calls (this is the only time she will allow them to call me) to talk to them and make sure they know that I love them?
Am I in fact a coward for not advocating for more time for our children given the threats she has made?
These may not be a questions that someone could answer but here goes.
Do I push for more visits along with overnights and risk that she will get some type of protection order as well as full custody?
Do I stop or reduce the the before bed calls (this is the only time she will allow them to call me) to talk to them and make sure they know that I love them?
Am I in fact a coward for not advocating for more time for our children given the threats she has made?