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As of today, I still haven't received any type of notification. It's definitely killing me becauae I'd really like to know what is going on. To say that I'm worried would be a huge understatement. The file isn't available to be looked up online because where I am these types of hearings are heard in Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court and they don't post the records as public information.

The way it works here is that once the paperwork is filed with the court, it takes several weeks before anything is scheduled. Both parties are issued a summons/subpoena with the date and time of the hearing listed.... she isn't under a state medical plan and I still don't have any new information.. I was advised by the court that they cannot give me any info over the phone due to the nature of the hearing. I will have to go by there or wait for my copy of the summons...

Thanks everyone for the input... This hasn't been revisited by the court since around 2006 or 2007 so there haven't been any changes since that time. I pay an additional amount each month above the ordered CS amount just for medical. I actually haven't been given a subpoena for court yet so I don't know what it says, but my oldest advised me that one had been delivered to my ex. As far as I know there haven't been any changes in circumstances. My ex is still working at the same location and nothing has been mentioned about anything happening in the regard. I really believe that this is being done purely out of spite because of the changes going on in my life... trying to punish me for not continuing to be miserable.

Hello everyone... I am new to the forum and would really appreciate your help. I have been divorced for 16 years and have two "children". One is grown and the other will be 18 and graduated from high school at the end of this school year. I found out a couple of days ago that my ex filed paperwork with the court for a child support modification and is also asking for me to pay 100% of medical bills. I am currently still paying the same amount of child support that I was paying when my oldest child was a minor. According to my calculations, the child support amount is not going to change very much at all...... The timing of all this is very strange to me. I didn't date for an extremely long time after the divorce because I was crushed over the loss of my family. I met someone a little over a year ago and we recently got engaged and I think that's where all this is stemming from...... I was hoping that I would never have to enter that courtroom again... What do I need to do to protect myself in this situation?