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Child Support Issues / gotta vent about cs...
« on: Aug 22, 2007, 05:12:11 PM »
ok all my dh just got sole legal/physical visistation of his 13 yr old daughter, prior to this he has been paying childsupport on time forever... well we sent in copies of the order and cs office said they are reviewing it and will let him know if they decide to change the order... We have decided to also seek child support as bm makes good money and can afford it.
 But I think the cs office is going to drag there heels  as they did not even mention his application when they told him they were reviewing his file..... amazing.. a mother gets it they will hunt you to the end of the earth...a father.. and you better do it yourself...

Child Support Issues / child support modification ???
« on: Jan 28, 2006, 07:30:19 PM »
has anyone here dealt with the Orange County CA DCSS for a modification? If so what was your experience?


Dear Socrateaser / registering order in another state
« on: May 14, 2007, 09:43:02 AM »
hey all, does anyone know how to register a custody order from CA in FL?? what form to file, is it a Fl form or a CA form?


Dear Socrateaser / settlement conference CA
« on: Apr 18, 2007, 07:40:16 PM »
can anyone tell me what to expect at a settlement conference?

Dear Socrateaser / Settlement conference
« on: Feb 21, 2007, 12:51:50 PM »

DH had court to set date for evidenciary hearing and opposing counsel asked for a settlement conference to be set first. Which was

What takes place at a settlement conference?

state is CA


Dear Socrateaser / confused in CA
« on: Feb 06, 2007, 12:29:55 PM »
ok so my dh got his recommendation from mediation yesterday, in which it states no additional time is recommended for father, father coaches sons football team therefore that should be considered more time. and further goes on to possibly take the only mid week visit he has from him. We have sent over a letter for clarification to the mediators office, since the midweek is not mentioned in the mediators recommended parenting plan
the mediator interviewed there 12 yo son and said son stated he wants custodial agreement to stay the same.. basically he repeated word for word what the mother said during mediation, yet mediator didnt view him as being coached.

my dh does not have as much as a parking ticket, yet the county we live in refuses to allow him anymore time other than EOW and split holidays, my dh has done everything asked of him and they still say nope sorry. the courts have even gone as far as taking away time, cause "mom says child misses homework when hes at dads house" yet has never shown any proof.  We cant even get the courts to order his name be put on childs birth certificate!!!
atty said we can go to hearing, but he said, the reality is that the courts are going to rule with mediator and it leaves us with little options.
there are no attorneys in my area willing to challenge the judge (there is only one family law judge in my area)

what options do we have?

Dear Socrateaser / mental health an issue?
« on: Jan 30, 2007, 08:38:20 AM »

    Just found out that my stepsons mother is under the care of a psychyatrist at the county mental health office, however dh just went to mediation last week (found out right after) but no agreement was reached.
 CA is state


1.) if parents go to hearing can father request/supeona psych records?

2.) Does this have a large impact on custody case?  

Dear Socrateaser / CA issue
« on: Dec 14, 2006, 08:58:37 AM »

OK, SO state is CA I am returning to mediation for custody/visitation issues for 12 /12 yr old son, we have joint legal she has sole physical, i have every other weekend one mid week and we split all holidays and summer,  per mothers request.. as she wants to take away some of my time..
we have a mediation triage monday morning as she is attempting to take part of my christmas break as it is my year to have the majority..she had majority last year...
then we will be referred to mediation for other issues mother has, mainly she wants to take away the majority of what i have, her reasoning is that I have other children and she doesnt so its not fair for her to be alone when I never have to. ..and yes.. the court allows her to say stupid comments like that...
we went to court in march of 05 I was going for 50/50 and judge was gonna give it to me, then asked to interview child.. when she interviewed him, I was not even notified of the date.. my atty was ticked.. well the child was coached by her atty,and her family and told judge he didnt want to see me more.. therefore judge ordered the custody order to stay the same. I will ask for 50% this time.

Bm has a problem with her leg (she says medical mystery) and takes prescription pain pills, vicodin.. I have concerns as to how many she is taking as I know she is driving with my son in the car

questoins are:

1. Can I supeona medical/pahrmacy records?

2. Does court take into account prescription drug use?

3. any other advice?


Dear Socrateaser / Ca custody matter
« on: Dec 10, 2006, 01:33:29 PM »
CO is in CA, bm is filing motion to modify custody/visitation child is 12  she has decided she doesnt like what little I have and is attempting to take it.. anyways, mother I believe overuses vicadin and is on medical, my son tells me that she often sleeps most of the day away, and she also drives after taking 4-5 pills at a time.. but I dont know how to prove it..

1. How do I prove she overuses this drug?

2. Can I bring this up in mediation or is it hearsay?

3. any other advice?

Dear Socrateaser / fl/Ca ???
« on: Nov 11, 2006, 11:20:29 AM »

Daughter resides in FL with mother during school year and with father in CA during summer,father has christmas break every other year and spring break every other year, parents share joint legal custody and mother has sole physical due to distance.

father was supposed to have christmas of 2007 according to court order, however mother asked to swap with father having this year. Father agreed.  co is in CA

Father has just found out mothers home is in foreclosure and child has failed 3 of 4 major subjects in school child is in 8th grade and is 13.

1. Does mothers home in foreclosure have any bearing on custody?

2. Does childs grades have any bearing on custody?

3.  When child is here for christmas break should father ask court for custody due to above mentioned issues?

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