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creature is moving away to louisiana!!  she told me today that she was going down there next week to scout out jobs and habitation then moving there at the beginning of march!!  she's not moving, as she previously planned, to get married. no, now she's moving to be near a female friend.  last time she moved in with a woman was when she threw me out 4.5 years ago.  i don't care why she's going as long as she goes.

baby will, of course, stay home with me and i'll have full custody.  creature says she'll voluntarily pay $225/mth support. koff koff yeah koff right koff koff.  

she says she wants baby for the whole summer from 3 days after school is over until 3 days before school resumes. she says if i try to move baby to a new school, she'll come back and sue for full custody.  ahem.

she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away! she's going very far, far away!

i know what tyou're thinking. you're thinking that she's said this stuff before. well, yes, she has, and march is still a month away, but come on. let me enjoy this little ray of hope, eh?

so, what do you think?

hi everybody. been a long time. i hope everyone had a great christmas and you're having a fabulous new year.

well, creature laid one on me the other day. see, several months ago she told me she was moving away to georgia to get married to some army guy who is now in iraq. then she said he was transferring to louisiana, so she'd be moving there. then, a few months ago, she went to visit her cousin in missouri and came back saying she was going to move there. with that in mind, she started bringing baby's clothes and toys to my house since she would not need them where she was going. see, she was going to voluntarily give me full custody and even voluntarily pay child support. to refresh you memories, we have had joint for about 2 yrs now and i'm the custodial parent.  anyway, i've been letting creature get away with quite a bit lately, especially with spending more time with baby than she deserves, because i knew she would not see much of baby once she went to missouri.  well, a few days ago she mentioned the townhouse she was moving into and i asked her where it is. she told me it's only about 20 minutes from here.  she told me missouri went out the window 3 months ago.  i was almost in tears.  there goes full custody. there goes baby's chances at a normal life week in and week out.  just when we were thinking baby would finally have a stable home life, creature pulls this on us.

creature constantly shows my 8yr old pg-13 movies.  If I call and ask
her why or anything, she'll just get angry then use it against me by telling baby: "Daddy won't let you watch this," or" Daddy won't let me show you this," or something similar to make me the baddy.  Baby is spending summer down there with her. What should I do?

baby is probably going to stay with creature this summer in louisiana. that's 3 months.  right now baby has medicaid with me, but that's a state issue, isn't it?  if she's in louisiana her illinois medicaid won't work.  so creature will have to have medical insurance for her there, right?  if so, is that going to hamper baby's eligibility for medicaid here at home?