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Child Support Issues / Pregnant child?
« on: May 06, 2008, 10:38:10 AM »
It seems that my 14 year old child is pregnant.

I am obligated to provide insuance and cover 1/2 of any uncovered medical expence.

My X  along with the parents of the boy have been acomplises in what I consider the statutory rape of my daughter by condoning and permitting her relationship with a 17YO boy by way of permitting him to stay at her home, allowing my child to go to his home etc etc etc. All of this against my urging to not permitt this relationship.

I will be contacting the cops with regards to this boy. My daughter may hate me for it but I think that will pass.

Do I have an argument that my X by her actions is solely responcible for the upcoming uncovered medical expensenes? Then what about my minor daughters child, who is responcible for this child.

Child Support Issues / Tax deduction
« on: Nov 06, 2007, 08:51:54 AM »
What recourse do we have if CP refuses to sign IRS form#8332?

Decree says I get the deduction on odd years if support is current as of 12/15 of said odd year. In the past there where some small arears on 12/15 so this issue has not been raised before.

This year support is and will be current on 12/15 but I am almost sure CP will not sign the form.

Child Support Issues / Govermental bondage?
« on: Apr 28, 2006, 06:39:41 AM »
The situation is as follows:

I have zero debt I dont owe anybody any money what so ever I own my home .

I have ZERO child support arearage.

I have had my earned paycheck garnished each and every payday for 12 years this garnishment took place dispite me having one of the two children involved.

I have NEVER EVER missed any Parenting time. I have been the CP  of one of the two children for this entire time, he is now on his own and serving in Iraq!

I have a job that makes me misserable!

My 43YO X-wife and the one who gets the free money that is taken from me goes to "school" as she has for the last 5 years and as a result of her own CHOICE has an income of about $700/mo (of course not counting the $700/mo or so in free money she gets from me)

My wife supports whats I want to do!

What I want to do is make a CHOICE and stop working at my current job and do a job I want to do, at a MUCH lower income. It would mean some sacrifice when it comes to money but my mental health would be greatly improved!

Sound ideal dosent it?

As an American I should be permitted to make that choice as my X-Wife is!


My Goverment says that I can do it as long as the money is there for them to take from me and give to another adult American at the same rate they do now without any reduction!

This is just not feasable so i must stay working and earning at the same level I am now or face punishment at the hands of my Goverment! IE: Fines, Driver licence suspension and of course JAIL!

I call this govermental bondage!!! What say you?

How the hell have we permitted this to happen?

End of rant!!

Child Support Issues / "I dont mind paying support"
« on: Jun 02, 2005, 06:19:57 AM »
"I dont mind paying support" Why do I read this statement so much?

I am not afraid to say it, I dispise sending one red sent of "child support" to my PBFH of an X. I hate it with a passion.

I hate the fact that my goverment takes my money and gives it to another adult without one iota of accountability.

I hate that my money gets taken from me and given to another adult under the guise that is is for my child. When I know damn well that these funds DO NOT go %100 to my Daughter.

Its not fucking rocket science to do the math and see the results.

Everytime I buy my girl a new pair of shoes, a new bra,new socks, a brush, deoderant, school supply ETC ETC ETC because she needs them. Even know that "CHILD SUPPORT" is taken from me each and EVERY pay check.

Is it some sort of guilt thing that some feel they have to say "I dont mind paying support" ?

Well DAMIT I do mind paying "child support" every dime of it. Its slavery I tell you, SLAVERY!

end of rant!

Child Support Issues / Will the IRS keep it?
« on: Jan 31, 2005, 08:34:17 PM »
Does anyone know how to find out if the IRS will keep any refund? In November the NH CSEA said I owed over $5K in areares and reported it to the IRS. I disproved this rather easy with the state and have the state audit to prove it.

After the NH CSEA cleared things up, they said that they would let the FEDS know and I should be OK. Well I of course dont trust them. Before I file and let them keep any refund I may have coming (how ever small it will be) I need to find out if the IRS is planning on intercepting any refund associaed with my SS#.

So can someone point me in the right direction? I am thinking I should just be able to pick up the phone and call the IRS and ask.

Child Support Issues / IRS Form
« on: Nov 08, 2004, 10:17:54 AM »
Can someone tell me if there is a IRS form that the CP has to sign so the NCP can claim the child on thier tax return?

Child Support Issues / Property TAX idea
« on: Jan 20, 2004, 06:03:34 PM »
Brief history had split custady for the last 6 years son with me Daughter with her. Be paying her about $300/mo. Son is now a 19YO HS grad, in the reserves, has a full time job and taking a few classes. X has filed for a CS MOD acording to NH guidelines my CS will go up by about %300.

I am going to ask the court to deduct my yearly property amount from my income that he looks at for my CS obligation. It is quite outragious $4900/year =$95/week thats aprox %10 of gross pay. The way I see it, no the way it is is this is NOT a volintary expence/debt and should be treeted the same as income tax.If the tax is not paid then the home goes away ! FYI my daughter does have her own room with all that one would expect to find in a 10 year olds room and this space must be maintained and does not go away when my girl goes back to her mom. Anyone ever hear of this or try this if so did it work? It makes perfect since to me!

Any other thoughts on how to stop this giant CS increase?


Child Support Issues / %300 increase in Child support
« on: Jan 12, 2004, 11:41:06 AM »
So here it is,
EX and I have 2 kids. We had split custady son with me daughter(now 10 years old) with her for last 6 years, now my son is 19 a HS grad, full time job and in the reserves. Got served papers for CS mod because son is now an "adult". Acording to NH guidline(for 1 child) EX will be getting almost a %300 increase in CS. I have always paid her CS $300/MO dispite having SC. Anyone have any ideas how I can prevent this? This increase will brake me!

Dear Socrateaser / Life insurance
« on: Sep 19, 2006, 01:00:15 PM »
Hello Soc
Hope all is well with you and yours!

I have a question about weather the benifecery on a life insurance policy should be the estate or a person . Currently its the estate and there is a will that dictates where the money should go. IE: the Kids, Wife , Dog etc.

1. If the Wife was made the benifecery would this protect the life insurance money from any crediters I may have or could the crediters still come after that money?

State is NH.


Dear Socrateaser / Property line question
« on: Jul 11, 2006, 08:15:02 AM »
Hello Soc;

Hope all is well with you and yours.

I am in NH.

A few years before I bought my home and property one of the abutters planted several white pine and spruce trees along the property line. Fast forward a few years and now these trees are growing very fast and the lower limbs are invading my space.

I am curious so I find the actual property marker pins and run a line between them and it turns out that most of these trees are auctualy planted smack-dab on the line or on my side. The trunks of the trees planted right on the line are auctualy also growing onto my side.

The trees are becoming a problem for me and robbing my gardens and lawn of sun light and this will increase as the years past. I dont want the trees there. Me and this neighbor are not really friends.

1. The way I see it the trees and any part of the trees on my side of the line are mine and I am within my rights to cut them down as I see fit. Do you agree?

2. Would you just cut away and let the neighbor react or advise him of you intent first?

3. If I cut the trees the trees that he in fact planted on my side would he have any recourse against me?


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