Back in Feb 06-My ex quit his job as a LVN before we went to court hearing for CS, I found out he had orientation the following week and stated it to my lawyer, who in turn asked him under oath if he had a job lined up, which THANK GOD, he answered truthfully and CS was made for HRLY rate, not his whole income, which you know as LVN in TEXAS you count mandatory OT. Anyways, AOG office never changed his Order to new Job, even though I sent FAX with new address. This has been since Feb 17th 2006. He is making voluntary sporadic CS payments, less than ordered amount and for March & May $0.00 dollars. I just found out on 6/8 that they had wrong employer and corrected it they faxed order on 6/9, he put in his 2 weeks notice to current employer 6/10. I do not know where he is going.... WHAT CAN I DO?
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Dear Socrateaser / 1st Communion
May 02, 2006, 12:04:33 PM
Dear Soc,
My divorce is final, I live in Texas, my kids and my ex live in Texas. I have a 9yr old and 4 yr old. My daughter (9) has her 1st Communion on Sat 17 of June, but it is father's day weekend, father refuses to cooperate and have her attend cermony.
1. What can I do in a legal aspect? Divorce Decree states father's day weekend with dad.
2. Can I mail a letter of intent? How do I word it? Such as I cordially invite you and yours to bla, bla, bla, and state that my daughter will be available to him by Sat night after ceremony.
3. What can be done to me if I do not provide her friday at 6pm?
He will not cooperate and will not answer my calls.
HELP
My divorce is final, I live in Texas, my kids and my ex live in Texas. I have a 9yr old and 4 yr old. My daughter (9) has her 1st Communion on Sat 17 of June, but it is father's day weekend, father refuses to cooperate and have her attend cermony.
1. What can I do in a legal aspect? Divorce Decree states father's day weekend with dad.
2. Can I mail a letter of intent? How do I word it? Such as I cordially invite you and yours to bla, bla, bla, and state that my daughter will be available to him by Sat night after ceremony.
3. What can be done to me if I do not provide her friday at 6pm?
He will not cooperate and will not answer my calls.
HELP
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Visitation Issues / Finally Picked Up KIDS!
Jul 10, 2006, 11:54:15 AM
I guess the THREAT of going back to court and filing for 1/2 of daycare expenses did the trick, and revolking some visitations.
He called Thursday and said he would pick up kids on Friday 7/7, which he did. He enrolled them in daycare. I am on the emergency contact list.
I do not know if i was right in making an issue of this but here is what I did, for ya'lls dissection.
My daughter wanted to take her gameboy/ 1 game, baby pillow & Blanket, (I asked her to take her cell phone), and my son took his Elmo which he sleeps with.
I made a note and requested NCP to sign it. He refused, I told my daughter she could not take those items with her. ON the note it states he is to replace/return said items by August 1.
Now he made an issue that it states that in the court order, and I said yes it does, I just want to reiterate.
He said why, I said cuz you took toys, L.girlfriend lost them at the park, and you did not replace the items and have not returned the items, Also you keep clothes and I have had to resort to PD helping me in collecting.
Even though as you say it is on the court order which you seem to ignore to your convienence.
And these items are expensive or priceless. Gameboy & Baby items.
My daughter made a big enough fuss (putting it lightly) so he went ahead and signed.
Was I wrong? He said he purchased lost items from the Park, I said where are they, he said "in my home" I said you did not purchase said items what makes you think you can keep them. Replace the things kids took from my home, return them to my home, and purchase some for your own house. Dont take from mine, from the little money I have that I provide for the kids you take, take, and take.
He just hung up, lets see if he returns all the items come Aug 1st.
He called Thursday and said he would pick up kids on Friday 7/7, which he did. He enrolled them in daycare. I am on the emergency contact list.
I do not know if i was right in making an issue of this but here is what I did, for ya'lls dissection.
My daughter wanted to take her gameboy/ 1 game, baby pillow & Blanket, (I asked her to take her cell phone), and my son took his Elmo which he sleeps with.
I made a note and requested NCP to sign it. He refused, I told my daughter she could not take those items with her. ON the note it states he is to replace/return said items by August 1.
Now he made an issue that it states that in the court order, and I said yes it does, I just want to reiterate.
He said why, I said cuz you took toys, L.girlfriend lost them at the park, and you did not replace the items and have not returned the items, Also you keep clothes and I have had to resort to PD helping me in collecting.
Even though as you say it is on the court order which you seem to ignore to your convienence.
And these items are expensive or priceless. Gameboy & Baby items.
My daughter made a big enough fuss (putting it lightly) so he went ahead and signed.
Was I wrong? He said he purchased lost items from the Park, I said where are they, he said "in my home" I said you did not purchase said items what makes you think you can keep them. Replace the things kids took from my home, return them to my home, and purchase some for your own house. Dont take from mine, from the little money I have that I provide for the kids you take, take, and take.
He just hung up, lets see if he returns all the items come Aug 1st.
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Visitation Issues / DAD DID NOT WANT KIDS FOR M-JULY!
Jul 02, 2006, 03:01:27 PM
Huh?
He did not want kids for the whole month and on his weekend 30 thru 3rd of July he did not pick up.
I did sherriff report but What do I do now? Any Ideas?
Sherriff said I cannot obligate to take kids. Even though I have a court order.
I gave Nanny VAKA W/O pay. And I did not buy any food for my home since no kids and only my mom & me at home.
Now? What? I have NO money -481 in bank and 1/2 tank of gas in car.
WHY is it he can do this to me? With no help from enforcement.
Don't get me wrong I am happy I have my kids I was just not prepared for expense,
Nanny will work for free I get paid on the 13th, and neighbor gave me some food to hold us over until 13th . Mom gave me gas money for work. Huh?
All the comments from earlier seem pointless since DAD did not even show up to house to pick up kids... called 10 min before 6pm and said had not made arrangements for daycare and I was not gonna stick him with the kids. Huh?
What now TEAM?
He did not want kids for the whole month and on his weekend 30 thru 3rd of July he did not pick up.
I did sherriff report but What do I do now? Any Ideas?
Sherriff said I cannot obligate to take kids. Even though I have a court order.
I gave Nanny VAKA W/O pay. And I did not buy any food for my home since no kids and only my mom & me at home.
Now? What? I have NO money -481 in bank and 1/2 tank of gas in car.
WHY is it he can do this to me? With no help from enforcement.
Don't get me wrong I am happy I have my kids I was just not prepared for expense,
Nanny will work for free I get paid on the 13th, and neighbor gave me some food to hold us over until 13th . Mom gave me gas money for work. Huh?
All the comments from earlier seem pointless since DAD did not even show up to house to pick up kids... called 10 min before 6pm and said had not made arrangements for daycare and I was not gonna stick him with the kids. Huh?
What now TEAM?
#5
Visitation Issues / HELP! MONTH OF JULY HELP!
Jun 20, 2006, 06:00:06 AMEx has visitation for whole month of July while I have two consecutive weekends, I am CP, he wants to LET ME have them all weekdays of July and he only EVERY weekend. My kids are 9yr and 4 yrs they have not spent more than one-two nights at any given time apart from me. To me as well to them this is gonna be HARD if not devastating. (one point)
Now, NCP is still not current on CS and reason for divorce was insupportability. Will I be enableing him if I allow him not to have the responsibility of feeding and clothing and providing daycare for them during that Month, and he will have the parenting responsibility too.
My heart says "Give me my Babies!" my brain says "It's your turn!"
I am torn, divorce decree states month of July with him.
He has called Sherriff on me several times, I am also "1st Communion Girl" for those of you that remember.
GOD BLESS!
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Visitation Issues / HELP ME PLEASE, need advice
May 01, 2006, 03:30:35 PM
Non-Custodial father does not want my daughter to attend Saturday preparation classes when he has them. Our divorce decree does not state he has to take them ok... but now her first communion falls on Father's day weekend.
When we divorced we alternated weekends we did not go by Divorce Decree, now he wants to go by Decree every 1st & 3rd weekend. My daughter does her first communion on June 17th, which I would have had them that weekend, but since it is Father's Day weekend he would have them 3 weekends in a row, now he wants to do 1st & 3rd which puts us back to he having them that weekend. My daughter (9) wants to do her 1st communion, in our family it is a BIG thing, he has never gone to church in the 12 yrs we were married, I was not married by church to him, which was one of our issues between us. He is rude and beligerent in regards to having her attend services. Any advice?
When we divorced we alternated weekends we did not go by Divorce Decree, now he wants to go by Decree every 1st & 3rd weekend. My daughter does her first communion on June 17th, which I would have had them that weekend, but since it is Father's Day weekend he would have them 3 weekends in a row, now he wants to do 1st & 3rd which puts us back to he having them that weekend. My daughter (9) wants to do her 1st communion, in our family it is a BIG thing, he has never gone to church in the 12 yrs we were married, I was not married by church to him, which was one of our issues between us. He is rude and beligerent in regards to having her attend services. Any advice?
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Visitation Issues / Catholic 1st Communion
May 01, 2006, 09:29:25 AM
Non-Custodial father does not want my daughter to attend Saturday preparation classes when he has them. When we divorced we alternated weekends we did not go by Divorce Decree, now he wants to go by Decree every 1st & 3rd weekend. My daughter does her first communion on June 17th, which I would have had them that weekend, but since it is Father's Day weekend he would have them 3 weekends in a row, now he wants to do 1st & 3rd which puts us back to he having them that weekend. My daughter wants to do her 1st communion, in our family it is a BIG thing, he has never gone to church in the 12 yrs we were married, I was not married by church to him, which was one of our issues between us. He is rude and beligerent in regards to having her attend services. Any advice?
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