Whats been going on lately peoples? What happened to this site? I know there are many things going on in this crazy state!
Spinner...how things been? Calm, cool, BM behaving these days, no contempts?
Hatewelfare....how are you enjoying being a custodial parent? Probably ALOT less drama going on right..or at least its more managable? How is your son doing and didn't you have a new addition to the family if I remember correctly?
Tulip...what's up sista? Hanging in there? BM disappear? Has she had any visitations or done any screen to have visits? Kids doing better?
As for us, BM has the kids for 7 weeks this summer, and it makes me crazy everyday they are gone. She now makes them talk on speaker phone which is always a joy. Got a new free attorney, which I have no idea where the hell she finds these people to represent her for free. I do like this one however because she does set her straight when she doesn't quite "get it" LOL.
My ex has disappeared off the face of the planet. He sends his wife to speak to me and she was explicitly told to stay out of our business by the judge. Doesn't bother her though, she keeps on a calling. He hasn't seen the boys since last August and there has been no contact from him to me whatsoever. I think he finds it easier to not see his kids than deal with his crazy wife at every single exchange. But the kids have recovered and think Dad will grow up and see them again one day when they are older. Still sucks, doesn't make it any easier, and my 9 year old says "let's just leave him alone until he pulls his head out of his butt." LOL. Smart kid. So I have honored his request. His Dad will call when he is ready I guess, or as soon as he gets a divorce from SM!
Thats our lives in a nutshell. No drama..well minimal at best anyway. We are REALLY liking it!
Spinner...how things been? Calm, cool, BM behaving these days, no contempts?
Hatewelfare....how are you enjoying being a custodial parent? Probably ALOT less drama going on right..or at least its more managable? How is your son doing and didn't you have a new addition to the family if I remember correctly?
Tulip...what's up sista? Hanging in there? BM disappear? Has she had any visitations or done any screen to have visits? Kids doing better?
As for us, BM has the kids for 7 weeks this summer, and it makes me crazy everyday they are gone. She now makes them talk on speaker phone which is always a joy. Got a new free attorney, which I have no idea where the hell she finds these people to represent her for free. I do like this one however because she does set her straight when she doesn't quite "get it" LOL.
My ex has disappeared off the face of the planet. He sends his wife to speak to me and she was explicitly told to stay out of our business by the judge. Doesn't bother her though, she keeps on a calling. He hasn't seen the boys since last August and there has been no contact from him to me whatsoever. I think he finds it easier to not see his kids than deal with his crazy wife at every single exchange. But the kids have recovered and think Dad will grow up and see them again one day when they are older. Still sucks, doesn't make it any easier, and my 9 year old says "let's just leave him alone until he pulls his head out of his butt." LOL. Smart kid. So I have honored his request. His Dad will call when he is ready I guess, or as soon as he gets a divorce from SM!
Thats our lives in a nutshell. No drama..well minimal at best anyway. We are REALLY liking it!