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#1
General Issues / Receipts
Sep 18, 2007, 09:58:27 AM
Custodial Parent is required to submit daycare and out of pocket medical receipts to non custodial parent for reimbursement of 1/2.

What is considered a timely manner for Custodial parent to submit receipts to non custodial parent?

The reason I ask is the Custodial Parent has been holding on to monthly daycare receipts & medical receipts  for over a 90 day period and submitting them all at once and Custodial Parent expects payment of 1/2 immediately.

Many medical/Dental bills are sent to collections before being paid by custodial parent. ( medical bills are anywhere from $20.00 to $60.00)


The receipts do get reimbursed for 1/2 but over a period of 90 days.

If/When Custodial parent does submits a receipt within 30 days of payment, the receipt is reimbursed for the 1/2 due by non custodial parent with in 30days.

Child Support of over $300.00 is current, not in rear-age, and is paid bi monthly on a regular basis.

What is considered a timely manner to submit receipts?

Is the custodial parent allowed, in the courts eyes, to hold on to the receipts for so long?





#2
Second Families / Step Child Aggressive
Sep 18, 2007, 01:23:56 PM
My Step child is 9 years old and spends 30 to 40% of the time in our home.

I have one older child 15years old and My husband and I have a 3yr old and a 4yr old together.

My Stepchild is very aggressive. She has been suspended every year in school..1st,2nd 3rd and in the 4th grade.. already suspended twice from after school care and it's just Sept.

Each time SC is suspended it's because of aggression to other children, hitting- fighting, or aggression towards teachers, yelling disrespecting and running away.


My Step Child also shows aggression towards our  children.
When SC was younger she use to hit my oldest, we tired everything to get SC to stop. Time outs, grounding ect... It's when my oldest finally had enough of SC hitting, My oldest hit back.
I do not condone violence in our home, but needless to say SC never hit my oldest again.

When our younger children came along, SC started to hit and hurt them.
With the huge age difference you can't expect the youngest to defend themselves.
I NEVER leave SC alone in a room with the two youngest two. SC still hurts the youngest right in front of me and tries to deny it, even though I saw it with my own eyes. (pushing, biting, throwing things at them breaking their toys)

We spoke with Biomom about this behavior, But it's never SC fault and never takes responsibility for her actions.

 We tried counseling numerous of times. SC won't talk.
Counselors all say the same, that unless their is consistency in both homes with discipline & rules,,, then SC behavior will not change.

Biomom will not work with us, but rather place blame and make excuses.

I'm stuck between protecting my younger two and caring for SC.
Sibling abuse is unacceptable and we can't get SC to stop.

We do believe there is some sort of domestic abuse with BioMom and StepDad. But can not prove it.


Any Suggestions?