I found out that my wife was having a affair last November after she ran off with the kids. she filed a PFA against me but is was thrown out, Then she moved in with her new guy and she did not want me to have any contact with the children so i had to file for custody. the day of the hearing she filed to get child support and tried to say that i was making way more money but that was caught right away. I now only get to see my kids every other weekend which i am very unhappy about. we have a temp order in place but she does not want to follow it she thinks that since she has primary custody that i have to beg her to do anything with them. when i call she turns the phone off so that i can not talk to them. I went to the courthouse and got contemp papers and i am in the process of filing them now. I had to fire my attorney since i followed what he told me to do but i feel like the state is punishing me for her having the affair and leaving the home. If any one has any ideas of what to do next please let me know i have no clue