So my almost 12 yr old daughter hasnt seen her father since this last June... he is CA on "vacation". Im not sure what from since he owes almost $23,000 in back support. pretty sure he grows and sells drugs- but not 100% sure on that.
Anyways- he has left for several months at a time a few times before this. He took her to the corner by the walmart in our town to ask for spare change (or pan handling as he calls it), his friend them both matching necklaces- made out of help for the necklace part and a blown glass pipe- yes for smoking weed with...and she brought it home and was so embarrassed to show me.
My question is this... should i allow him to visit with her when and if he comes back? How do i explain to her i do not want her alone with him? he doesnt have a drivers license because of lack of paying support- do i allow him to drive with her- what will happen?
Anyways- he has left for several months at a time a few times before this. He took her to the corner by the walmart in our town to ask for spare change (or pan handling as he calls it), his friend them both matching necklaces- made out of help for the necklace part and a blown glass pipe- yes for smoking weed with...and she brought it home and was so embarrassed to show me.
My question is this... should i allow him to visit with her when and if he comes back? How do i explain to her i do not want her alone with him? he doesnt have a drivers license because of lack of paying support- do i allow him to drive with her- what will happen?