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Custody Issues / Parents Rights Ribbons
« on: Feb 21, 2005, 05:28:17 PM »
It has been brought to my attention that some people still do not know where to go to get the custom Parents Rights Magnetic Awareness Ribbons I have for sale. I do not wish to wear out my welcome here at SPARCS so I will simply state that if you wish to know more about these ribbons or order one, please e-mail me C_ALEXANDER@FSMAIL.NET and I will get the information to you ASAP.
I have spent my own savings in the hopes of offering these ribbosn to help spread the word about Parents & Kids rights AND to help fund my move from Indiana to where my daughter is now (Colorado). I've got about 370 still to sell so your support is greatly appreciated. I don't want ot have to stick all of these to my truck. I'd ionly be able to drive north...haha.

Thanks All,
Chris Alexander
The Ribbon Guy

P.s. please spread the word to others in the community and on Spracs here.

Father's Issues / Mother Trivializes my plans for x-mas
« on: Dec 23, 2005, 04:21:26 PM »
Man I was so mad. Thsi is my first x-mas here in Colorado with my daughter Jessie. All of my family and friends are back in Indiana and I miss them terribly, but I know I have to be here for my little girl. Anyway I have put everythign I have into providing a good Christmas here for my daughter and I and my ex wife is now pissing all over it. She has chopped the weekend so much our daughter is going to get whip lash from goign back and forth between the hosues. Then she has my daughter call me just now and ask if she can goto a party at her mom's BF's parents house because her mom told her all of the kids are goign to be there. Now I ask you what kid is goign to want to goto their dad's house and have a quiet little x-mas when a party full of kids to play with is going on?
I swear little garbage like this is constantly comign up. Her mother is goign to school full time and working as an EMT and the BF and I are raising Jessie. Jessie crys often about how she has no time with her mom, but I would be a creep if I told her the truth that her mom is more concerned with herself then Jessie. It is SO had to continue to be the good guy. How can anyone in good conscience act ths way?

Bottom line I stuck to my guns told Jessie that tongiht was OUR X-mas and that we already had plans. Now she is upset with me for not lettign her go, when it was her mother who KNEW we had plans and sought to trivialize them and villianize me. I never thought I, of all people , was capable of hatred, but I truly hate this woman.

merry X-mas

Father's Issues / Krights Radio's "Ribbons"
« on: Nov 01, 2005, 05:41:18 PM »
As I had hoped Krights contacted me and the entire situation was a misunderstanding and miscommunication. The site for now is down and Richar Farr and I are working on the details so that Krights Can take over the Kids NEED BOTH Parents ribbons and merchandise to continue spreading the word about our fight. The funds generated from this merchadise can really help Krights continue to do the things needed to take our voice directly to Washington.

I made a mistake and jumped to conclusions about the intentions of Richar and Krights and for that I sincerely apologize.

Father's Issues / Colorado Dad
« on: Aug 24, 2005, 03:30:15 PM »
Hello all, it is I the Parents Rights ribbon guy again. I am writing to let you all know that I am still alive and safe here in Colorado and that I am loving it being able to be so clsoe to my daughter.  Since my move my ex wife and I have been VERY cooperative with each other to the point hat it's scary and the person benefiting most from all of this is our 10 year old daughter.

I have had a few minor set backs since getting here. My car wreck being the most significant, but I have been very lucky. Last Saturday I found a cheap, well maintained car for under $1000. Having transportation again I am able to continue the job hunt. Hopefull within the next week or so I will be working somewhere.

Also I am writing to inform you that I have changed ione of my websites. Initially I had a website entitles help-a-dad which told my story and was asking for assistance, later I set up the Parents Rights Ribbons website at: http://ncpribbon.blogspot.com/ for people to order parents rights ribbons. I have since changed the help-a-dad website to "Colorado Dad" at: http://colorado-dad.blogspot.com/  as a site to tell my ongoing story of being a divorced father. To update people on current parents rights news, and to act as inspiration to thousands of parents and children who have gone through or are going through situations like my own.

At the moment I do not have much up on the website but I hope to soon have more postings. I hope that I can give back to all of thsoe who have helped me.

Father's Issues / Almost died
« on: Aug 09, 2005, 01:53:54 PM »
Well, according to everyone I have talked to so far  I am pretty lucky to be here. Earlier today I got into a pretty bad accident in my car (only 2 mos old to me).  Some elderly guy and his family from Ohio decided to stop DEAD on I-225 in a construction zone and even though I was far behind them, their sudden stop didn't give me enough time to react and I rearended them. I had been going about 60 but managed to skid and slow down to maybe 45. I can only afford liability insurance on the car, and it is damaged enough that it is undriveable. I still can't find a job here and now I have no way to get around.  

you can see pictures of the carnage at the links below:


As for me, everyones been telling me I am lucky to be alive. My car being older had no air bags or nothing so I got rocked pretty hard witht he crash. My neck is pretty sore and I plan to goto the hospital either today or tomorrow to be sure it's ok.

So to top it off I am jobless, and carless. I don't know what I did to the
universe to make it want to screw me over so bad. I just want it all to be over. I  am tired of fighting. I just want to get myself settled and get on with my life.  

Father's Issues / I made it
« on: Jul 20, 2005, 06:47:48 AM »
Wanted to let everyone know I made it to Denver, CO late last night at 10pm local time after an agonizing 18 hour car trip....by the waynever drive across Kansas it SUCKS..lol

I am getting settled in my new home. I jsut wanted to let everyone know I made it here ok and my daughter Jessie is VERY happy I am here..as am I. Heck even my ex wife is glad I am here. I believe that with this move I will havea new opportunity to be even more involved in my daughtes life. My ex wife has been VERY cooperative so far...I think she is impressed tha I am here an can finall see jsut how serious I am about being involved.

Anyways thanks all so much for all of your help ad support. I would not be here witout yu all. I will get myself set up here and keep ou all informed on how things go.

Father's Issues / I can't understand you all
« on: Jul 13, 2005, 03:57:43 PM »
I can't understand you all when you use abbgrevations like DH, SS, BM, DD and all that stuff. I want to help people with their questions, but come on are we too lazy to type out a name or as least LIST all the abbreiavtions? It is VERY confusing

Father's Issues / Indiana Vehicle lien
« on: Jul 13, 2005, 03:36:40 PM »
Recently my parents helped me out big time and purchased a vehicle for me to help with my move to Colorado. Although we put the car in my name, it is property of my parents as they own it and I will be making car payments to them for the vehicle. Today I got a letter from the state saying they were putting a lien on the car until I payed up on my child support. My support is some $15,000 behind becauase the state BROKE their own child support laws and set the CS amount much higher then they were suppsoe to then would not fix their own error several years later.  I was told the ONLY way the lien can be removed is if I pay up on my CS...which is practically impossible.

I swear to God the government is out to screw us all. They pretend to be our friends and say they are there to keep us safe from terrorists....all the while they tighten the noose. I doubt there would even BE any terrorists to begin with if our governemnt actually had decent diplomatics. Secondly these "elected officals" which are sworn to sever our needs...meaning the ENTIRE population of the US...have lost touch with reality. In history another country had a problem like this...It was called France and when the people finally stood up and screamed that they had had enough heads started to roll if you know what I mean. They called it the french revolution, and if these politicians  don't wake up soon there is another one coming. I do not condone violence or overthrowing the government mind you, but something MUST be done about these people lying, cheating and stealing from us.

As for the car I guess I am stuck with it forever. I can buy a new car in colorado and Indiana can't really touch it, but as far as this one goes I am just screwed.  Guess I am gonna drive the wheels off of it then junk it.

Did I mention I hate Indiana!?!

Father's Issues / Some good news
« on: Jun 30, 2005, 05:34:26 PM »
I wanted to update everyone on my move from Indiana to Colorado to be with my daughter, my Parents Rights Ribbons, and all the craziness that has been going on here.

To begin with and for those who don't know my daughter was forced to move over 1000 miles away from all of her family and friends 2 years ago as a result of her mothers pursuit of a new boyfriend. The last few years have been pretty tough without my 9 year old around so I began a campaign to raise the funds I needed to move to Colorado so I can once again be near my little girl.

I have been working almost non stop these last several months to save all I can, I began offering Parents Rights Awareness ribbons like the ones you see on cars for "Support Our Troops" to help raise awareness of our cause and to raise funds to help with my move.

As my deadline approaches (my currently living situation expires on August 1st of this year) I have found a VERY generous single mother in Denver who is sympathetic to my plight and has offered to open her home to me until I can get mon my feet.

Also I had a major set back to my move overted recently. My car blew up about 2 months ago and it didn't look like I was going to be able to find one affordable and yet reliable enough to get me out to Colorado. Thanks again to a very generous person I managed to get a very reliable car in near mint condition for next to nothing.

It would seem that things are falling into place very well and I am overwhlemed by the generousity and assistance so many people out there have offered me and my daughter.  Thank you all for your support..it is because of you that in a few short weeks I will be once again living close to my daughter.

Father's Issues / Almost Move time...HELP!
« on: Jun 07, 2005, 05:59:53 PM »
Hey all, its been a while since I have been on here, but I hope you
all have not forgotten me...I'm the guy with the Parents Rights
ribbons...the guy stuck in Indiana while his daughter is in Colorado.
I wanted to update everyone on my situation and ask for any help,
advice or what have you that anyone could offer. I am kind of at a
loss at the moment...here we go.

I am looking for a place to live basically until i can get on my feet
out there. I have placed a few ads online, but have not gotten great
responses. I have been trying to find a place to stay, room for rent
for my daughter and I while I establish myself. I will have enough
money to cover living expenses for 2 months...maybe longer if I really
watch it and depending on what someone might charge me for rent. I am
quiet, considerate and clean. I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs of any
kind. I pretty much keep to myself. As for the place I am looking for
I am not asking for much, but there are a few things I have to have.

1. No cats...I have severe allergies
2. Some kind of high speed interenet access for job hunting and
maintaining my ribbon site
3. A good roommate that is understanding of my situation and is good
with children...ie no drugs, partying, etc.
4. Something within 20 mins of the intersection of East Orchard Rd and
Sotuh Tower Rd. see map link


Other then that I am willing to sleep on the floor if I have to. I
don't have much maybe 10-15 medium sized moving boxes and my computer here. I just am not going to have what I wanted to have move so  I need to do this as cheaply as possible.

What I was wondering is if anyone here might have, or know of a good
place or if anyone had any advice. You can e-mail me at

Chris Alexander

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