I know that Soc is on vacation for a couple more days so thought I'd post here instead...
State is Florida.
Just discovered that CP Mom has been depositing CS into a savings account. She's admitted in e-mail that all CS for a period of 18 months was deposited in this account - close to $23,000. She thinks it's showing what a good mother she is in providing for the children. Account is in her name only however.
She and her husband have a separate joint account that pays all the household bills, and she tells the boys that they can't play sports or do extracurricular because she doesn't have the money, she's saving for a house, etc.
We also just found out that she's pregnant by means of invitro, which I understand to be a very expensive process - anywhere from $8,000-10,000 out of pocket). Pretty sure, based on her and husband's combined income of $70,000/year, and known expenses, that CS financed a portion of the procedure - or 100% of household expenses so that they could afford the invitro.
Questions:
1. Have heard that judges frown on CS being put into a savings account (maybe not so much on a 592 plan). CS is to be used for daily expenses, not for events yet to come - no guarantee that the children will be around to use the saved money. Anyone know case law or have info on this?
2. If can be proven that invitro was partially or fully financed by CS, can DH do anything about reimbursement?
3. Also issue with day care. CP also admitted in writing that neither boy has been in day care (or after school care) for past 18 months. CS order has NCP paying $198 of CS towards day care. Order does not address at what age day care portion should stop (boys are 12 and 11). Should NCP just stop paying that portion, or file for modification based on this alone? Would be 17% of CS order.
Thanks.
State is Florida.
Just discovered that CP Mom has been depositing CS into a savings account. She's admitted in e-mail that all CS for a period of 18 months was deposited in this account - close to $23,000. She thinks it's showing what a good mother she is in providing for the children. Account is in her name only however.
She and her husband have a separate joint account that pays all the household bills, and she tells the boys that they can't play sports or do extracurricular because she doesn't have the money, she's saving for a house, etc.
We also just found out that she's pregnant by means of invitro, which I understand to be a very expensive process - anywhere from $8,000-10,000 out of pocket). Pretty sure, based on her and husband's combined income of $70,000/year, and known expenses, that CS financed a portion of the procedure - or 100% of household expenses so that they could afford the invitro.
Questions:
1. Have heard that judges frown on CS being put into a savings account (maybe not so much on a 592 plan). CS is to be used for daily expenses, not for events yet to come - no guarantee that the children will be around to use the saved money. Anyone know case law or have info on this?
2. If can be proven that invitro was partially or fully financed by CS, can DH do anything about reimbursement?
3. Also issue with day care. CP also admitted in writing that neither boy has been in day care (or after school care) for past 18 months. CS order has NCP paying $198 of CS towards day care. Order does not address at what age day care portion should stop (boys are 12 and 11). Should NCP just stop paying that portion, or file for modification based on this alone? Would be 17% of CS order.
Thanks.