I work to pay my x. Just dont have the money for Optimal but i desperately need something similar or the like. She documents my every move, for years. I'm not so disciplined despite being burned by that. We are in the usual court fight every year. Ive growned accustomed to it. I had a Palm Treo and it was great for keeping records but i cant even find a online calendar that will repeat things simple as "every other weekend". thanks
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Parenting Issues / My daughter rejects me openly. I'm hacked.
Jun 06, 2009, 10:03:12 AM
This has been an on going problem for years. My daughter is 8yrs old. I have been divorced for 5. The usual bitter long drawn out divorce, in fact we are in court every year. When she is with me she loves me but for some reason clings to my wife more than me. If there should be any alienation issues I would think the X would focus this endeavor twds my wife, the woman I had the affair with. Not condoning this but it's the past. The x has been remarried for about 4yrs. The fellow treats my child nice, and I feel my daughter loves him. I'll never have respect for the worm as he tried to adopt my child. Not a rat's chance in a blender.
All her little activites such as, cheerleading, B-Ball, Soccer, I attend. When I show up she won't look at me. When I approach her she just ignores me, won't say two words to me. This makes me so upset I want to pull my hair out. I'm no psyche proffessor so I don't know how to handle this, discipline her scold her, ignore it. Can someone help?
Her affection twds her mother and her mother's affection to my daughter is hmm... too affectionate?? I mean she worships the ground she walks on. It's just not natural or mentally healthy, can't be. I mean the child still can't be away from her mother more than three days without going into hysteria. At all these events my child has eyes totally fixated on her mother nearly the entire time where she can't even focus on what she's doing. I observe all the other children and they are focused on the event not the parent. Is this healthy? This has to be some sort of pyschosis on both sides to some degree.
All her little activites such as, cheerleading, B-Ball, Soccer, I attend. When I show up she won't look at me. When I approach her she just ignores me, won't say two words to me. This makes me so upset I want to pull my hair out. I'm no psyche proffessor so I don't know how to handle this, discipline her scold her, ignore it. Can someone help?
Her affection twds her mother and her mother's affection to my daughter is hmm... too affectionate?? I mean she worships the ground she walks on. It's just not natural or mentally healthy, can't be. I mean the child still can't be away from her mother more than three days without going into hysteria. At all these events my child has eyes totally fixated on her mother nearly the entire time where she can't even focus on what she's doing. I observe all the other children and they are focused on the event not the parent. Is this healthy? This has to be some sort of pyschosis on both sides to some degree.
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