I haven't posted in quite some time. My DD is now 6 and her BF didn't want to have anything to do with her until she was 3.5. I'm sure some of you remember that there were some bumps in the road along the way and some of you were helpful in pointing out some of my flaws and when I was making a big deal of petty little things. I need your opinions again. I was with some mutual friends yesterday and found out a lot of information about the BF. Most of it I don't care about but there are a couple of things that put up red flags. Apparently BF was dating 4 different girls at once. I don't care. He is a grown man and can do what ever he wants. He has introduced all of them to DD. And since 2 of the 4 are no longer talking to him it has caused some issues with DD because she had formed friendships with the kids of one of the girls. And she doesn't understand why she all of a sudden can't play with those kids. I knew that DD was playing with these kids but didn't know BF was dating their mom because once again, I don't care and its not my business. When its DD's time with her BF then that's there time together and unless she is reporting a safety issue (which she hasn't) I don't really get involved. In the course of finding out all of this stuff yesterday it was also brought up that BF had threatened to kill himself the threats were to the point that the police had to be involved. That is the part that I care about. I don't think the police EPC'd him. It makes me have nervous to have her around him of he is making those types of threats. The other part that concerns me is that one of the girls may move in with him. She is divorced and has 2 children of her own that she does not have any custody of. I don't know why she does not have custody of her children but it makes me nervous to have my child around someone the courts have deemed should have have custody of her own children. Like I said he is grown and can do what he wants. I only have concerns when it comes to DD's safety and well being. I know what the friends tell me is all heresay and may or may not be true. But if BF was threatening to kill himself and the police were called there should be a police report. I'm just trying to figure out if I have any options. I'm just looking out for DD.