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Hello I am needing some advice one a situation I am in. If you hcan please help me that would be great .. okay I'm 7months the dad of this baby I am carrying we are no longer together. He has  been here during my pregnancy. Would it be not right to have him in the delivery room?  He was also very controlling, has lots of angry problems and has put his hand on me during my first trimester. But I keep him informed about the baby until he sent me an email about how I should stop contacting him about this baby that he don't care what happens to it and that since it is apart of me he wouldn't know how to handle himself with that baby. That he moved on and is happy?. What can I do with this could I get some kind of custody with this information. And I have two other toddler boys their dad is welcome to see his kids until their bed time. Should I show the same respect to this baby I'm carrying to his dad. Whatever went on with me and him I don't take it out the kids and make them not see their dad. I want this baby to bond with his dad. But under the circumstance of his emails and texts him taking the infant out of my house wouldn't be appropriate. But I am willing for him to to do visits here at my house. So it wont be like I'm with holding him seeing the child.. what is a good ways to approach this matter. With me looking like I'm with holding the infant,or taking away his bonding time?  Could I get sole custody with the texts and emails that him and his girl sent me or at least supervised visits? Under threathing messages and texts towards the unborn baby and me.. Would he be able to take the infant overnight even through he isn't on the birth certificate?