Press the issue! My Ex was/is an extreme example of PAS, and at one time she had my then young teenage daughters calling me every name in the book over the phone. The EX and I live over 2000 miles apart so the relationship was long distance to begin with, and I would have never thought a parent would leave their children talk to another parent the way my EX did, and in the background encouraged it! I was not allowed to see them from 1997 until 2000 because of the EX, and they said they didn't want to see me either. I took her back to court, and the girls finally came to visit me in AL...they both have since moved to AL because they see that what was said about me was totally false and fabricated by their mother. Hang in there!