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We found out that SD had been going to counseling.  How do we request information regarding her visits.  Will the counselor tell us anything?  We have Joint Legal.

Here the doctor's office always says"We'll need to cal BM and ask her if it is okay to give you that information."  I have to take a copy of the court order that says DH has joint legal custody and a copy of state statutes regarding this to the office.  It's become a process.  SD gets new Dr.  We send copies of court order.  It's rediculous.

I agree about calling the police.  We recently had issues with BM not wanting us to take SD to Mexico.  Or on a cruise, or to Vegas.  To many to count. There is nothing in the court order that says SD can't go anywhere with her dad as long as he has given 30 days notice.  Our attorney advised us to call PD if mom denied vacation visitation.   It's called custodial interference.  While the PD may not do anything you will have witnesses and a police report.  Ask for vacation to start the day before you are scheduled to leave.  It may give you some time to do something if she interferes.  You may have to go on vacation without her but I would definatley hit her with a contempt charge when you get back.  As was said before, prepare yourselves for disappointment.
  Our whole family went to Mexico and St. Thomas and I think my 4 year old nephew had a wonderful time.  

Also, you may have to have BM's permission to get a passport.   We had to get that court ordered.