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Second Families / Dad visits with only one Child
Jan 10, 2007, 10:04:15 AM
First time posting:  My ex-husband and I have two children.  One was born well we were married.  One was born after.  He has never visited with the second child.  Several years ago my current husband adopted her.  She is now 10 and wants to talk with and visit with her biological father.  He calls our home and talks to her brother and visits with him occansionally.  I mentioned this to my ex and he said he would get back to me.  As usual, he has never gotten back to me.  Our daughter wants to talk to him next time he calls.  Do I just put her on the phone?  I am concerened about the impact his rejection might cause her.  My ex tends to be very inconsistant with visitation.  He lies to our son and is mean.  I am also concerned about the impact a relationship with her will cause in her life.  HELP!  Does anyone have any suggestions.  Thanks
Maggiealone