i'm from the the SWB (second wives board) and just thought i'd check this forum -- i've been posting for about 10 years
also -- my own 3 step daughters have successfully overcome PAS -- so i know what i'm talking about
DO NOT GIVE UP -- REGARDLESS OF WHAT THE KID WANTS -- you are the parents, not she -- you decide what is best for her
the best medicine for PAS is NEVER GIVING UP -- always standing by their side, being the smarter parent, the more loving (not spoiling) parent -- believe it or not, kids crave discipline and boundaries, it's what makes them feel loved and safe
even with your bio kids -- a parent needs to be prepared to ignore kid's hate threats -- moreso with step-kids
hang in there -- your stepkid will get over his/her emotional tantrums about your parenting a whole lot sooner than the mental trauma they are being subjected to with PAS
also -- my own 3 step daughters have successfully overcome PAS -- so i know what i'm talking about
DO NOT GIVE UP -- REGARDLESS OF WHAT THE KID WANTS -- you are the parents, not she -- you decide what is best for her
the best medicine for PAS is NEVER GIVING UP -- always standing by their side, being the smarter parent, the more loving (not spoiling) parent -- believe it or not, kids crave discipline and boundaries, it's what makes them feel loved and safe
even with your bio kids -- a parent needs to be prepared to ignore kid's hate threats -- moreso with step-kids
hang in there -- your stepkid will get over his/her emotional tantrums about your parenting a whole lot sooner than the mental trauma they are being subjected to with PAS