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Child Support Issues / Re: visitation with no child support?
« on: Sep 25, 2009, 04:13:06 PM »
Yeah, as ugly as it sounds, I am going to have no choice but to set up a pick up or drop off time and have the sheriff meet instead of myself.  I am certain that he is avoiding legitimate employment in order to skirt the payment of his child support.  He finds work here and there that pays under the table instead of obtaining steady employment.
If I don't do something, this will go on forever.  I am not putting money over DD's relationship with her father.  But the fact of the matter is, we are struggling as well.  I have spoken with him on multiple occaisions regarding this issue and have expressed understanding to him that the economy is poor and I know he's having trouble.  But it's been over 6 months since he made any attempt at paying his child support and enough is enough.  His home is a poor environment for her and I rather she weren't exposed to it.  He's an alcoholic and I'm pretty sure drugs are involved (or so I am hearing).
What I have decided to do is just to tell him that he is welcome to pick her up for visitation, but that I am calling the sheriff to enforce the outstanding warrant.  If he chooses not to come get her, then that is on him.  I won't deny visitation.  But I will clearly state my intentions.  He will avoid seeing her himself just to get out of this situation.  He won't man up and take care of the problem.  I'll be interested to see how long he'll be willing to let this go unresolved before he takes care of it just to see her.

Child Support Issues / Re: visitation with no child support?
« on: Sep 21, 2009, 04:21:37 PM »
1.  it IS set up through child support enforcement. 
2.  He will not get/keep a job. 
3.  He will not file to have the amount decreased.......because it makes him feel like less of a man, i guess.  Last time we went to court, they raised his support.  When the judge asked him if he was comfortable with the increase and if he thought he could afford it, he replied "Oh, I could afford way more than that!"  (He's a complete moron people).
4.  Child Support Enforcement can not advance my case until he is arrested.  He has an outstanding warrant, and that's as far as they can take it until he is arrested.
He picks our daughter up every other weekend.  I COULD call the sheriff's department and have him arrested when he picks her up, or drops her off.  I was trying to avoid that because I did not want our daughter to have to see him get arrested...... 

Child Support Issues / visitation with no child support?
« on: Sep 21, 2009, 11:29:44 AM »
My ex husband hasn't paid me any child support in months.  I live in Kentucky and he lives in Ohio.  There is a warrant for him in Kentucky for non-support.  He has visitation every other weekend.  Can I deny him visitation due to this outstanding warrant or because he has not paid his support?  Please email me your responses to lwyphan@roadrunner.com

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