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I've looked up quite a few, and they are really diverse.

Currently yes, the visitation is unsupervised, but we have considered changing that, in part because of the mental stability of the ex's current wife who we have discovered has a "mental disability". (Not sure what the diagnosis was, but it's all adding up to an unsavory situation.)

Well, the DHS is involved on a couple of different cases involving his household. Out attorney has said it shouldnt be a big deal to move, just notifying the courts of a change of address. The move really isnt in question, nor am I given to believe that her ex has any say in the matter, our attorney has stated that while the ex can file, he's not going to prevail, and given the fact that a minor child in his household is being charged with a felony sexual assault, I'm not thinking he will get far with an appeal.

I just really need input on the out of state visitation portion. I want to draw up something which is fair, without giving away more than we have to as we have other children as well who will need our time and attention too.

In my experience whatever your actions of the moment, document, document, document. One missed visitation is not going to land your ex in contempt, but a dozen plus other items all put together will be more telling.

So my wife and I are looking at consolidating our households, which are 500+ miles apart. She in Arkansas, I am in Texas) We have been given reason to believe that the current situation with her ex is not a healthy situation for their son, and are thinking that moving sooner rather than later would be in the child's best interest.

My question here is what sort of out-of-state visitation set-up would be fair in the eyes of the court? My only experience was in Texas where I was forced to strip all parental rights from my ex for reasons similar to what is happening in my wife's ex's residence, but I am also biased and my knowledge is colored with what I know from Texas.

Does anyone have input or suggestions? Input about Arkansas law is really a good start, but any input is valued.

Thanks!