I have an ex-girlfiend who has accused someone of rape, someone of molestation and me of domestic violence. I dont want to get to detailed. I am non-violent, and I dont believe any of the other accusations are true. After a tremendous amount of reading I believe she suffers from BPD. The courts are so one sided to her that I am flabergasted.I am in Ohio and currently looking for a good custody attorney. Not having alot of luck. How can these courts see such destructive behavior and ignore it. At the present time I am not allowed to see my child. I did nothing wrong. She threw a restraining order on me, the courts gave her my vehicle & she has emptied my home. Has any man ever won a case when the mom is BPD? And does anyone know of a good custody lawyer?