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#971
[p]I reread what I posted, and I considered it out of line.  It was out of line.

[p]HOWEVER, since you decided to chime in, let me vent further.  

[p]JayC is a long-time SPARC supporter and a SPARC Board of Directors member. He's done more to help SPARC than you ever have, so why don't YOU shut the f*ck up? If you have a personal issue with him, settle it off the boards, but don't drag your personal bullshit in here.

[p]How is being hateful and bitter helping SPARC?  How is accessing people's court records helpful to this site?  I question JayC's situation, because he has a consistently rotten attitude.  It makes me wonder.

[p]JayC-my email address is [email protected]   In case you want to know how I really feel about you.  If anyone cares to spam me, don't bother.  Thanks to my son using my email address to register for crappy sites, I already have plenty of junk like "watch these farm girls cluck".

[p]Hey Brent, I know you guys stick together.  It must have been a long night sitting in JayC's mom's basement, holding his hand.  There is never a good reason to stick your nose into someone's court papers.  It's outrageous.  I take that kind of invasion of privacy PERSONALLY.

[p]What the hell have you ever done for SPARC? Name me one thing, just one. Ever donated anything, even a dollar? Ever served on the board of directors? Ever been a moderator? Ever volunteered to do ANYTHING here? No, you haven't, so you're in no position to pass judgement on him.

[p]Oh look, there are icebergs floating in the River Styx!  That's what will happen when SPARC invites me to join the board of directors, or offers me a moderator job.  I'm here because I want to be a better parent.  As a human being, I feel very bad for the kids and parents who have to put up with this hell.  If there is any small way I can help anyone, I  will certainly try.  However, every once in a while, someone will post, and my red flags go up.  When I see JayC, I see "red".

[p]One more thing.  This is supposed to be a "family friendly site", so watch the language Brent )(


#972
It's true that an RO can be useful for documentation purposes.  It burns me up that filing a false RO doesn't carry any real penalties.  Why bother having laws if they're only going to be selectively enforced?

I live in the Los Angeles area.  I learned a long time ago from reading the paper, just how worthless an RO can be.  Psychotic people come in both genders.  I wonder how many men need one, but don't get one?  It's probably pretty humiliating to stand before a judge and try and explain why a 6' man needs protection from a woman who's maybe 5'1".  I think that maybe people need to start protecting themselves.  Of course that would involve loosening up the "conceal carry" laws.  We all know that guns are the root of all violence. Yeah, let's outlaw baseball bats and sharp objects!  More insanity from our elected officials, who will not camp out in our driveways and protect us./sarcasm
#973
Father's Issues / Hey, JayC is still among us!
Dec 01, 2003, 12:22:03 AM
Still scavenging, I see.  My court records must have left you furious.  LOL!  Grow up and get a life.

As far as having any friends....no one in their right mind would be a friend of yours...

This is soooo totally my opinion.  This person and I went round and round several years ago,  and he's been known to access court records.
#974
Yikes, I'm going blind!
#975
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-chat/1031388/posts

Kind of lame, but I was getting rather pissed off trying to do what the bot required.


Lots of folks here might be able to help on a person to person basis.

This is for the folks who privately emailed me.  Post quick, so they know you're serious!

Dammit Angus, go eat, and let me type!
#976
You could get an even bigger crowd, if you post this on //www.freerepublic.com

No, I'm not trying to spam this site, but I've seen how effective FReepers can be on hot issues.  When I quit being lazy, I'll ask Jim Robinson (he runs Free Republic) to perhaps help folks who are getting screwed, regarding their kids.  Maybe a separate forum within the forum.

I know this for sure....if you bring it to the streets, often enough and  eventually, even the liberal biased media has to take notice!

I'm in CA.  When you register on  freerepublic....send me an internal email.....I'm TheSpottedOwl.  I can help you out.  There are a lot of people who can help.
#977
Father's Issues / Welcome back :)
Nov 30, 2003, 01:21:35 PM
msme
[p]Is back in town!


[p]Ughhh, morning sickness :(  My kids are growing like weeds, and eating me out of house and home.  Now if I could get them to quit with "I have a stomach ache and can't go to school", everything would be okay.

[p]That is really awful about your friend's kid.  Stress will shut you down.  I learned that the hard way.  This divorce must be worse than mine was....


[p]The endocrinologist said that if he hadn't got treated when he did, he could have passed the point of no return & remained a physical child for life.

[p]Michael Jackson?  No, seriously.  Sorry....

[p]My son seems to be growing ok.  His paternal grandpa was short.  His maternal grandpa was maybe 6ft.  His father is 5'11.  He's 16, and he's probably hitting 5'9", considering that I'm 5'8" and he's taller than me.

[p]Seriously, there is a term for this....'Failure To Thrive".  Check it out.

#978
Father's Issues / RE: What to do?
Nov 29, 2003, 11:05:53 PM
I can see why you would take the moral high road re the mother.  I did it, but my kids are getting older now, and can figure things out for themselves.  What is the problem with telling your girl that you couldn't see her because you weren't given the chance to exercise your visitation?   Be firm, be an adult, and don't let her get away with it.  But for pete's sake, do it without trashing mommy dearest.  You know the drill....

I don't know what to tell you about the death threats, beyond my other statement.  I can't believe she'd go that far....but we all read the papers.  Ok, who is the top cop in your jurisdiction?  Give us a name and an email address.  With your permission, I'll repost it on another site.  You and your daughter need to be protected.  

I will need a more in depth statement about what' s going on before I repost the request.  It will be worth it.



#979
Father's Issues / RE: What to do?
Nov 29, 2003, 03:56:33 PM
Exactly how is she phrasing "Says that getting rid of child and myself is her only option left to get me out of her new life"?


Is she making threats of bodily harm, or does she want to give up custody to you?   Maybe you should tell your kid that mommy is denying visitation....depending on her age.  Why should you be made to look like the bad guy?  Others will disagree with my last statement, but when you run out of cheeks to get slapped....

Depending on what state you live in, you could record these threats.  Always have a witness with you.  A witness that can stand up in court.  If the judge vetoes your next RO petition, try and get another judge.  Unfortunately you will have to get a lawyer, eventually.  Seems to me that the authorities don't take death threats seriously until someone is dead.

Good luck....

#980
The TRO is null and void, because SHE violated it.  Brent and Indigo Mom are right.  I've also known one or two people in that situation.  It's shot down.  She did it, not you.  A friend of mine got tricked into this many years ago.

Get a RO that covers both of you.  I'm glad you're smart enough to know the game.  

Why is she so "deathly afriaid of me"?  hahahahaa!  I was having a conversation with my friend about the antics that women play on their husbands, such as RO's, kicking the guy out of his house, etc....because they're scared.  I asked my daughter(21 yrs old), if she could see me doing that to her dad.  Of course not.  He would have brought down hell on all of us.  I might not be here typing this today.  I'm still scared of him.  

From what I've heard, RO's are a joke for the most part.  I thought about getting one after I walked into the living room and saw Mr. Wonderful standing there giving me the ten mile stare.  I thought about getting a RO, but what's the use?  He'd turn it into a game to see how many times he could violate it without getting caught.

This woman needs a psych evaluation.