Good call. It's just so difficult to "catch" her "red-handed". Her family stands guard in a really sick, co-dependent way.
Grandma (who has been brainwashing my daughtger coercing my daughter to aatend a church where they preach that "daddy is wrong for taking you to his church" because "daddy's church is a CULT and he is making sure you will go to Hell") comes over weekly to clean and to make sure that everything is CPS-Ready.
On the one ocassion that my daughter was forced by circumstance to come with me to my lawyer's office (at a time before my ex-wife knew I had retained one), the very next morning I noticed grandma's truck was out in front of my ex-wife's home.
When I called to see how my daughter was doing I was told: "just fine...everything is under control...she's just been sick". I came by and took my daughter to the doctor to have her examined. She was diagnosed as being just fine, although the doctor noted that on a hot summer day, to have the child so bundled up was not a good idea.
So the question that this begs is: "...why on a hot summer's week, is this child kept home, kept cloistered in her room bundled up in sweats, rather than at school when the child is not ill..."
This is the same grandma whose trailer the child was cloistered at for 6 days dirctly following the breaking of the same wrist which was injured weeks earlier.
The question here begs: "...why was the child cloistered in the hills for 6 days instread of taking her to the hospital..."
My lawyer at the time (whom I ended up firing for sneaking into bed with the enemy) advised me not to call CPS but to get a state licensed 3rd party to report the abuses.
The only thing I thought would be effective is to have the doctors, teachers, etc., who had knowledge of the facts submit write ups of the facts and enter those into my declaration in a motion requesting modification of custody.
When I did this, my ex-wife immediately switched into "...no I didn't you did..." mode and now we are right back where we started, with counselors and mediators doing the whole "...oh you poor victimized thing, let us coddle you and shower you with social services and we'll help you get that brooding neanderthol".
I mean, it's gotten to where a father can't even say, "hey, my kid is hurting" without the "system" responding by putting me on trial to determine whether or not I have hurt the mother's reputation by asking the very questions I am bound by the order of the court to ask.
Just crucify me and get it over with. Take my child and reduce her to another statistic, strangle any voice that should dare question the precious "status quo".
Just make sure that you pretend to really care and support "family values" or whatever the political mantra of the day might be while you drive in the nails.
Grandma (who has been brainwashing my daughtger coercing my daughter to aatend a church where they preach that "daddy is wrong for taking you to his church" because "daddy's church is a CULT and he is making sure you will go to Hell") comes over weekly to clean and to make sure that everything is CPS-Ready.
On the one ocassion that my daughter was forced by circumstance to come with me to my lawyer's office (at a time before my ex-wife knew I had retained one), the very next morning I noticed grandma's truck was out in front of my ex-wife's home.
When I called to see how my daughter was doing I was told: "just fine...everything is under control...she's just been sick". I came by and took my daughter to the doctor to have her examined. She was diagnosed as being just fine, although the doctor noted that on a hot summer day, to have the child so bundled up was not a good idea.
So the question that this begs is: "...why on a hot summer's week, is this child kept home, kept cloistered in her room bundled up in sweats, rather than at school when the child is not ill..."
This is the same grandma whose trailer the child was cloistered at for 6 days dirctly following the breaking of the same wrist which was injured weeks earlier.
The question here begs: "...why was the child cloistered in the hills for 6 days instread of taking her to the hospital..."
My lawyer at the time (whom I ended up firing for sneaking into bed with the enemy) advised me not to call CPS but to get a state licensed 3rd party to report the abuses.
The only thing I thought would be effective is to have the doctors, teachers, etc., who had knowledge of the facts submit write ups of the facts and enter those into my declaration in a motion requesting modification of custody.
When I did this, my ex-wife immediately switched into "...no I didn't you did..." mode and now we are right back where we started, with counselors and mediators doing the whole "...oh you poor victimized thing, let us coddle you and shower you with social services and we'll help you get that brooding neanderthol".
I mean, it's gotten to where a father can't even say, "hey, my kid is hurting" without the "system" responding by putting me on trial to determine whether or not I have hurt the mother's reputation by asking the very questions I am bound by the order of the court to ask.
Just crucify me and get it over with. Take my child and reduce her to another statistic, strangle any voice that should dare question the precious "status quo".
Just make sure that you pretend to really care and support "family values" or whatever the political mantra of the day might be while you drive in the nails.