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#11
Child Support Issues / RE: Child Support Rant
Aug 25, 2005, 07:08:23 PM
WOW!  What state are you in?
BD is months and months behind and all they have done to him is take his license away (like it matters, he still drives). I am on both sides of child support.  DH has to pay CS.  SD (7) has started coming over asking him if he had a job and saying "you are poor" "you are broke" "you don't have any money"  this is all so funny to me becasue we started paying CS at the end of the month instead of the beginning.  The 1st month we did this, 3 days before the end of the mo. BM called her attorney to tell her that DH was 1 month behind. (Nope! Guess again!) It is also funny that she tells SD DH is broke considering he just took SD on a trip to GA. (from WA!) for a week!  This is also coming from a woman (if you can call  her that ;)) that has held 1 job for LESS than 9 months in AT LEAST the LAST 4 YEARS!!!  I would REALLY be far more willing to buy clothes, bills, etc.  ESPECIALLY considering every time BM gets CS she (BM) is sporting new clothes and SD will have one or two new things like a new dress or shorts and her shoes are still too small!  and then say "my mom spent (amt. of child support) on me" I am looking at her like ya right, so then where did BM get all her new stuff (she has NO OTHER visible source of income~not even state assist.) That BURNS me up SO BAD!  We have decided to pay her weekly instead of one monthly lump sum to see if that will help curb some of that, doubt it, but it is worth a try!
#12
Just make sure that you have all of your records of payment until this date in order so that you can show the judge that you have made all of your "payments" in good faith, and with a little luck, s/he will sway in your favor.  Good Luck!
#13
I would think that you should get that money back.  There is nothing to apply the money towards and since you have proof it was paid in full...I would also look into seeing what you can do to CP since they took the order down there knowing it was already PAID IN FULL and FRADULANTLY took money from them and from you...
#14
I work with teenagers in WA and most of them are juvenile offenders.  From my experience it is solely up to the child to pay for restitution.  I doubt you would get child support back from BM as court would look at it as money to help with raising SS.  They would have to turn to DH as well if they did that as SS is his son too...you can never be sure of the system though, especially in WA state!  Hope that helps...
#15
Child Support Issues / RE: Child Support Rant
Aug 18, 2005, 10:49:44 PM
Island sounds real nice right about now!!! ;)  
Here I am back at the beginning...BF has yet again disappeared into thin air.  (Funny when I wanted to move, I got a resounding "NO" and a restraining order!)  I do know what city he has moved to, however no clue where and only know because another of his baby's mama's told me!  Do you really think he is going to tell me where he is working?  HAHAHA.  My CSO has a great attitude too "he has to live and survive too you know"  Well you know as long as he is living and surviving to hell with his DD and her survival.  What happens to the kids that have a CP that can't or won't step up when NCP won't?  Oh well, So now my back support is drastically picking up speed number wise!  Like I will ever see it!  Thanks for letting me vent!  
#16
I don't know, but CS should NOT play a factor.  It would kind of defeat the purpose of restitution if DH has to pay money for one child to pay it to another child.  I don't know about your particular state, however it is NOT your DH's restitution.  It is SS's there for it should be his to pay, however he can get the money...
#17
Child Support Issues / RE: Criminal non support
Aug 08, 2005, 06:25:36 PM
GOOD FOR YOU!!!  I am glad that you are taking action, pretty soon I bet he will ask you for a glass of water!!!
#18
PP says that "the recieving parent provides transportation."  I know that is we don't let her pick her up all h@** will break loose.  We are dealing with someone that is 51 cards short of a full deck!!!
#19
Okay 2 questions, what state are you in and we are the NCP's so wouldn't we be in contempt?
#20
That is what we are trying to figure out.  BM has had two DWLS in the last 2 months alone!!!  How can she continue to drive with SD in the car???