WOW! What state are you in?
BD is months and months behind and all they have done to him is take his license away (like it matters, he still drives). I am on both sides of child support. DH has to pay CS. SD (7) has started coming over asking him if he had a job and saying "you are poor" "you are broke" "you don't have any money" this is all so funny to me becasue we started paying CS at the end of the month instead of the beginning. The 1st month we did this, 3 days before the end of the mo. BM called her attorney to tell her that DH was 1 month behind. (Nope! Guess again!) It is also funny that she tells SD DH is broke considering he just took SD on a trip to GA. (from WA!) for a week! This is also coming from a woman (if you can call her that ;)) that has held 1 job for LESS than 9 months in AT LEAST the LAST 4 YEARS!!! I would REALLY be far more willing to buy clothes, bills, etc. ESPECIALLY considering every time BM gets CS she (BM) is sporting new clothes and SD will have one or two new things like a new dress or shorts and her shoes are still too small! and then say "my mom spent (amt. of child support) on me" I am looking at her like ya right, so then where did BM get all her new stuff (she has NO OTHER visible source of income~not even state assist.) That BURNS me up SO BAD! We have decided to pay her weekly instead of one monthly lump sum to see if that will help curb some of that, doubt it, but it is worth a try!
BD is months and months behind and all they have done to him is take his license away (like it matters, he still drives). I am on both sides of child support. DH has to pay CS. SD (7) has started coming over asking him if he had a job and saying "you are poor" "you are broke" "you don't have any money" this is all so funny to me becasue we started paying CS at the end of the month instead of the beginning. The 1st month we did this, 3 days before the end of the mo. BM called her attorney to tell her that DH was 1 month behind. (Nope! Guess again!) It is also funny that she tells SD DH is broke considering he just took SD on a trip to GA. (from WA!) for a week! This is also coming from a woman (if you can call her that ;)) that has held 1 job for LESS than 9 months in AT LEAST the LAST 4 YEARS!!! I would REALLY be far more willing to buy clothes, bills, etc. ESPECIALLY considering every time BM gets CS she (BM) is sporting new clothes and SD will have one or two new things like a new dress or shorts and her shoes are still too small! and then say "my mom spent (amt. of child support) on me" I am looking at her like ya right, so then where did BM get all her new stuff (she has NO OTHER visible source of income~not even state assist.) That BURNS me up SO BAD! We have decided to pay her weekly instead of one monthly lump sum to see if that will help curb some of that, doubt it, but it is worth a try!