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#21
No current case in progress. The other lawyer states that he will not respond to my letters unless I send him a letter of no lawyer..
Right now we are communicating over payments due by the CP for doctor bills, extended summer visitation, etc... really no need for a lawyer...

WHat if things get out of my control pro-se.. can I change my mind if anything does go to court? say if the CP wants to put in some modifications?

#22
Dear Socrateaser / Dealing with the BM lawyers
Apr 01, 2006, 04:49:19 PM
In Texas... BM, the custodial parent has recently requested, that all questions, request for reimbursment, letters etc be sent to by my lawyer to her lawyer. I do not feel as if hiring a lawyer for communication purposes is necessary and have sent the such letters myself to her lawyer explaining my position on hirirng a lawyer.
What should I be concerned with in dealing with her lawyer myself?

If the BM's lawyer knows that I am representing myself, can he somehow get the judge to sign modifications or documents without my knowledge?

Anything else I should watch out or do incompliance with the representing yourself rules?

I hope this makes sense...
Thanks
#23
Soc- Thanks for your help in the past, you have helped me not to blow my cool and document and wait. I hope you can help me do the same tonight.
I see these posts and know that am lucky, but still am treated unfairly by the CP mother.
 
I am a good father and just want to talk to my daughter on the phone, though it doesnt seem very long for most, I haven't talked to my daughter in 3 days and have been beaten down by her mother by email or phone griping me out for something silly. I work and come home to my family and want to talk to my daughter and she refuses. This is in addition to many other things many many other things.

Can I write a letter to someone that might care? A rights activist, a judge, the news? A Casa worker?
Does anyone listen to your situation and make a responsible decision really in the best interest of the child?
Why does the CP get away with so much?
Really sad dad in Texas...
#24
Dear Socrateaser / rotavirus sister of daughter
Feb 04, 2006, 06:16:24 AM
I have found out that the sister of my daughter from her mothers second xhusband has the rotavirus. My daughter is with me now for the weekend until Monday night at 6. Can I ask and recommend for my daughter to stay with me till the sister is virus free? (it last s for 8 days)
My daughter would most likely end up staying with my wife if she ended up sick and her mother would not stay home with her.
Would you consider this the best interest of the child for me to let her mother know she will be staying with me for the time the other child is sick?

Could I still face contempt charges?

Thanks!

ps... we also have a 48 hours first right of refusal in our custody papers.
#25
Dear Socrateaser / RE: Interragatories?
Feb 02, 2006, 07:26:46 PM
How is this different from a motion for clarification?
#26
Dear Socrateaser / Interragatories?
Feb 02, 2006, 11:15:52 AM
What is this Interragatories? What are they used for?



#27
Dear Socrateaser / general forms
Jan 16, 2006, 10:34:54 AM
I am looking for forms or examples of ways to file things myself. Is there a place to find those online?
I am specifically looking for motion to motify and motion for clarification.
Thanks!
#28
Dear Socrateaser / RE: Clothing
Jan 12, 2006, 08:53:21 AM
Wow I really thought I was being silly is there anything in print so I can print it out and show her that?
 I might be able to handle it outside of court.  

Also how do you file pro se on something like this? or anything for that matter?
A law library?
Big help... Thanks
#29
Dear Socrateaser / Clothing
Jan 11, 2006, 05:04:12 PM
I know this seams silly,
 but who is to provide the clothing for the child when the child is being returned to the CP at the time school resumes?
I have sent school clothes over at the beginning of the year and have been sending my daughter in the school uniforms that we paid for but have a really hard time getting the clothes back.
I have plenty of clothing for my daughter at my house for when she is here, but when she is going back to her mothers, I think her mother should provide and outfit for her to wear back.
I pay child support and provide clothing for our house and can't continue to replenish the supply just because her mother does not want to send it back. I also have supplied things her mother doesnt buy such as tennis shoes and coats, but want them back after a reasonable amount of time
What can be done about this?
Do you think this is petty?
#30
Dear Socrateaser / Really wanting an evaluator
Jan 10, 2006, 12:45:09 PM
I have been reading a lot on your site, the custody site and everyone talks about evaluations and I have done some research on them.
I am the Texas NCP and have recently in the past year gone back to court and won extended standard visitation.
My daughter who will be 8 in May is a lot more  verbal about her wishes to stay with my wife and I more. Things are good sometimes with the CP mother  and sometimes they are not, it is like walking on eggshells.
If things aren't that bad, right now, but have been in the past,
1. Should I request an evaluation for week on week off visitation? (We would wait until September)
2. Does the CP have to participate in the evaluation?
3. How do I go about beginning the process?
4. Do I have to have a lawyer or can I file myself?

Thank you. I tried to follow the rules. Bradley