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#21
Why not try to get some FREE money out of Dad!! Better to buy more Bobn Bons!! HEHEHE

By the way you have nothing to do with anything in this matter.

On the contraery you and your Boys may even be ammo for the Dad. I know damn well I would be using "you" to my advantage. Think about it!3 unrelated males living in the home with a adolesent Girl. If I am Dad I am for sure checking into YOUR background looking for any "dirt" or anything I can make look like dirt on you or your Boys. How long have you and your GF been in this relationship?

#22
I must have missed somthing, what CS laws are changing in 2007 - 2008?
#23
Child Support Issues / Govermental bondage?
Apr 28, 2006, 05:39:41 AM
The situation is as follows:

I have zero debt I dont owe anybody any money what so ever I own my home .

I have ZERO child support arearage.

I have had my earned paycheck garnished each and every payday for 12 years this garnishment took place dispite me having one of the two children involved.

I have NEVER EVER missed any Parenting time. I have been the CP  of one of the two children for this entire time, he is now on his own and serving in Iraq!

I have a job that makes me misserable!

My 43YO X-wife and the one who gets the free money that is taken from me goes to "school" as she has for the last 5 years and as a result of her own CHOICE has an income of about $700/mo (of course not counting the $700/mo or so in free money she gets from me)

My wife supports whats I want to do!

What I want to do is make a CHOICE and stop working at my current job and do a job I want to do, at a MUCH lower income. It would mean some sacrifice when it comes to money but my mental health would be greatly improved!

Sound ideal dosent it?

As an American I should be permitted to make that choice as my X-Wife is!

However.

My Goverment says that I can do it as long as the money is there for them to take from me and give to another adult American at the same rate they do now without any reduction!

This is just not feasable so i must stay working and earning at the same level I am now or face punishment at the hands of my Goverment! IE: Fines, Driver licence suspension and of course JAIL!

I call this govermental bondage!!! What say you?

How the hell have we permitted this to happen?

End of rant!!
#24
I think a good deal of the problems with todays Child support industry could be resolved if we would simply switch from a income based formula to a true expence based formula.

This would provide accountabilty for what is now just FREE monies for the CP to do whatever the hell they want with. I think it would be much easier than folks think.

I mean its not rocket science to "see" where my hard earned money goes. IE: Some $350 is TAKEN from each and EVERY paycheck I get. This money is sent to my X and her household. Her household consist of her, her BF, my Daughter and her 2 "other" kids. So my Daughter makes up %20 of that house hold (3 months+-/year or so she is at my house so she is %20 of that household for only about 9 months a year). My Xs household income from the 2 adults is $1400/mo when you add the $700/mo from me their HHs total income is $2100/mo. So the money that is taken from me and given to her makes up %33 of their total household income.

So my Daughter makes up only %20 of that HH for only 9 months out of the year yet I am providing %33 of that HHs income 12 months out of the year!

So its obvious to see that I am not only finacialy supporting my Daughter %100 I am supporting my X, her BF and her other kids.

Futhermore I get to pay the taxes on the money that is taken from me and given to her. I only get the tax deduction every other year for my Girl. Hell based on these numbers I should not only get the deduction for my Girl every year I should also get the deductions for her 2 kids.

Based on the above numbers tell me how I am wrong?
#25
Child support in its present form is nothing more than a wealth redistrbution program. Its a money making sceam for the states and the people who recieve the FREE money each and every month without ever having to ACCOUNT for one red penny of how said monies are spent.

Furthermore it is a system of  involentary servitude to those who the money is stolen from.

What else would you call a system that takes earned monies from one adult and gives it to another adult without any accountability WHATSO EVER? Even the Goverment makes people who are the payees for a minor childs social security, acount for said monies on a yearly basis.

What else would you call a system that takes earned monies from an adult and the entity that is taking said monies gets a reward for taking this money?

What else would you call a system that FORCES an adult to work at a certain level of pay? The argument that the system does not make one work at a certain level of pay, rather just pay at a certain level is a bogus one. IE: If 2 two Parents are together raising a Child and Dad changes jobs for a lower paying job but a job that he like more the Family will adjust. It does not work this way if the two Parents are apart. Yet another example of how CS is involentary servitude.

The idea of  "Our daughter is the #1 child. I don't want ANY of his children to suffer and be neglected, but I don't think that it's fair that our daughter has to suffer everytime he fathers another child!" just blows my mind! What! Dad cant have any more Kids? If the two parents where still together would not the Family adjust to having more people. If a CP has more kids would't they have to adjust the way they spend thier funds? I for one dont think that having more siblings should be looked at as suffering.

If the system of child support was truly about providing finacial support for children and children alone, then there would be a system of check and balences in place so the Adults who get the checks would be held accountable for said monies and would face consequences for not spending the money to support the Children.  
#26
You can do this without an atorney! Just file with the court and show up with you documents should not be a bid deal.
#27
Child support till the age of 21 is just WRONG. It blows my mind that you New Yorkers have to put up with this. If this is not a perfect example of involentary servitude I dont know what is!

So not only do you have to support you ADULT X via "child support" till the child is 18 you have to continue to support your ADULT child after you have no control or say so in anything he/she does!

I can hear it now, "F**k you Dad you cant tell me crap and I dont have to do anything you say. Just make damn sure you send the check, I'll be waiting for it!" (not saying that your kid is like this)

Fing bizarre to say the least!

Good luck to you! At least its over for you!
#28
Sometime kids need to be made to do thing. If you have a CO that says you get her on X then she needs to come.
#30
One sure way to keep the state out of it is to "keep the state out of it" IE: dont take the welfare, dont "pretend" to not be the dady, take care of yours.

Its great that you and Mom are all good for now I hope it stays that way.

However to protect you and your child rights you need to assume that it wont always be nicey nicey. Step up NOW claim your child and support her.

Document EVERYTHING. May not seem like it now, but chances are that you WILL end up in court fighting the Mom over Parenting time and of course MONEY.

GOOD LUCK!!