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#271
The article below is published today on LewRockwell.com
( http://www.lewrockwell.com/ ). The readership of this site is enormous,
some 24 million hits per month.

David Blankenhorn and the Institute for American Values seem to specialize
in personal smears.  Blankenhorn's published work is largely an attack on
American fathers who have no similar platform to defend themselves.  More
recently, he has taken to launching ad hominem attacks on anyone who
questions his unsubstantiated allegations.  At the same time, he refuses to
engage the substance of arguments that challenge his own.  I have been
looking for an opportunity to confront Mr. Blankenhorn's falsehood directly,
and now he has provided it.

Feedback can be sent to: [email protected].

Special thanks to Ed Truncellito for his assistance.

Stephen Baskerville
******************************************

LewRockwell.com
September 3, 2004

http://www.lewrockwell.com/orig2/baskerville5.html

The Failure of Fatherhood Policy
by Stephen Baskerville

David Blankenhorn is considered by many to be the leading intellectual
authority on the crisis of fatherless children. His book Fatherless America
is justly acknowledged as an authoritative statement of "the most harmful
demographic trend of this generation." Its influence on government policy
has been immeasurable through the "responsible fatherhood" programs of the
Clinton administration and many state and local governments during the
1990's. It continues to influence the marriage promotion schemes now being
advocated by the Bush administration.

So it is worth listening when Mr. Blankenhorn laments that "everywhere one
looks today for political and social commentary, seriousness is on the wane,
intemperance is the favored style, and the barking dogs have taken over the
conversation." Yet Mr. Blankenhorn himself may not be immune from his own
strictures concerning civil public debate.

In his web log ( http://familyscholars.org/archives/2004_06_27_archive.html ),
Blankenhorn launches an attack, not on the substance of any published facts
or arguments but on an organization that supports scholarly research with which
he disagrees, the respected Howard Center for Family, Religion, and Society.
Blankenhorn seems to believe the Howard Center is answerable to him for
the scholars they support (in this case the scholar is me) and calls them on
the carpet accordingly. While I hesitate to be drawn into discussions of other
people's motives, I believe I know the reason for this behavior.

At the outset of his otherwise admirable book, Blankenhorn makes a vitally
important but unsubstantiated assertion that lies at the heart of his claim
to be an authority on the fatherhood crisis. "Never before in this country
have so many children been voluntarily abandoned by their fathers," he
writes (p. 1). "Today, the principal cause of fatherlessness is paternal
choice...the rising rate of paternal abandonment" (pp. 22-23).

Blankenhorn cites no source and evinces no evidence for these assertions.
Aside from the question of how he can be privy to the volition of other
people, this statement represents an odd abdication of the scholar's
critical function. He seems to take it at face value that because children
do not live with their fathers, therefore their fathers have abandoned them.
Yet this does not necessarily follow.

In fact, Blankenhorn's statements have been called into serious question by
in-depth investigations on precisely this subject. Research published in
refereed journals by respected scholars like Sanford Braver, Margaret
Brinig, Douglas Allen, Ilene Wolcott, Jody Hughes, Judith Wallerstein, and
Sandra Blakeslee, and corroborated by the professional experience of authors
as ideologically diverse as Constance Ahrons, Shere Hite, David Chambers,
Robert Seidenberg, and Rosalind Miles, indicates that paternal abandonment
cannot account for widespread fatherlessness.

After years of defamation, the very parents Mr. Blankenhorn excoriates for
abandoning their children are protesting that they have done no such thing.
Their protestations are now being heard in reputable current affairs
publications and even peer-reviewed academic journals. The last issue of the
refereed Independent Review, asks "Is There Really a Fatherhood Crisis?"
( http://www.independent.org/publications/tir/article.asp?issueID=13&articleID=35 )
To  my knowledge, Mr. Blankenhorn has not responded.

The stakes here are not trivial. Blankenhorn's error goes to the core of our
understanding of the fatherlessness phenomenon and by extension of the
larger family crisis whose manifestations now appear on the front pages.
It is difficult to exaggerate the impact of this misconception in justifying a
host of ineffective and counterproductive policies during the last two
presidential administrations and by numerous local governments. His
undocumented allegation has misled the uninformed and armed the unscrupulous
with a weapon to garner political capital by whipping up hysteria against
innocent parents, in the process exacerbating the plight of fatherless children.

The untruth that widespread fatherlessness is caused primarily by paternal
abandonment disguises the uncontested truth that millions of innocent
children are kept in forced separation from legally unimpeachable fathers by
court orders that their fathers may breach only on pain of incarceration.
The misconception has also has been used to justify ever-more repressive
police measures and violations of constitutional rights against ever-greater
numbers of law-abiding citizens under the guise of collecting child support.
Worse, these measures actually contribute to fatherless homes by serving as
a subsidy on divorce and by incarcerating parents for circumstances that are
beyond their control.

If Blankenhorn is correct about paternal abandonment, then we indeed have a
law enforcement problem of massive proportions, against which we must commit
vastly more resources for police, courts, prosecutors, and prisons, since
the huge expansion of the penal apparatus already implemented over the last
decade in response to alleged paternal abandonment has made almost no dent
in the problem. On the other hand, if the scholars cited above are correct,
then such an expansion of police power will achieve nothing but to increase
still further the number of fatherless children. For it is precisely this
expansion of government power which is largely responsible for the problem
in the first place.

It is no exaggeration to say that this question could determine the future
of family policy in America. Indeed, it may not be far-fetched to suggest
that this question carries implications far beyond family policy, since -
and it is Blankenhorn's own achievement to have established this -
fatherlessness is at the root of most larger social pathologies, including
poverty, violent crime, substance abuse, and truancy.

The societal ills Blankenhorn links to fatherlessness have driven the
government-growth policies of both the left and the right. They have
justified the exponential expansion of both the welfare state and the penal
apparatus.

If these problems stem from a spontaneous social phenomenon - fathers
abandoning their children - then it is difficult to challenge the need for
programs to combat them. If, by contrast, the option becomes available that
we might control most of our social problems by curtailing the power of
government to separate children from their fathers, then most programs
expanding government power become superfluous. Anti-poverty programs,
expanding law-enforcement powers, the war on drugs, federal education
programs - all are rationalized by "crises" whose roots lay in broken homes
and exiled fathers.

It hardly need be added that armies of scholars who dedicate their careers
and justify their funding by studying ever-more arcane aspects of these
phenomena also become largely unnecessary.

After more than a decade of government programs predicated on this fallacy,
the fatherhood crisis continues to grow progressively worse. Rather than
continuing to heap blame for our public policy failures on the backs of
scapegoats, it may be time to re-evaluate the central misconception upon
which they are based.

I challenge Mr. Blankenhorn to confront and refute the facts published by
any writer who has questioned his assertion rather than trying to silence
others by undercutting the platform from which they speak. If he can show us
where we are wrong, then perhaps we can begin to work together to confront
the problem, and he will have earned a place as a leader in this vexing
problem.

On the other hand, if Mr. Blankenhorn cannot make good his assertion, then
it is time for him to acknowledge his error and retract it.
 
                                                                       September 3, 2004

Stephen Baskerville [send him mail] is a political scientist at
Howard University and president of the American Coalition
for Fathers and Children. .

Copyright © 2004 Stephen Baskerville

LewRockwell.com Home:  http://www.lewrockwell.com/

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Children Need BOTH Parents!

The American Coalition for Fathers and Children


"Children learn what they live"
#272
Father's Issues / Kid's Rights Radio Show
Aug 25, 2004, 09:28:42 PM
http://releases.usnewswire.com/GetRelease.asp?id=35166



'Family Rights' Radio Network Begins Broadcast: An Historic Event for the
Family Movement

8/25/2004 10:53:00 AM

To: National Desk

Contact: Jane Spies, 330-534-8948 or [email protected], or Richar' Farr,
817-223-0126, both for KRightsRadio

DALLAS, Aug. 25 /U.S. Newswire/ -- Richar' Farr describes his new Internet
radio station as "a town hall meeting on radio." He calls it Kids' Rights
Radio - KRights for short. Farr is the KRightsRadio.com founder and main
on-air commentator. The unique station began its unusual and compelling
broadcast on Aug 1, 2004, and is now on the air 24 hours a day, 7 days a
week.

"This is an exciting and historic event for fatherhood, children, and the
family rights movement. It's a great leap forward. For years, noncustodial
parents and their extended families have not been able to easily tell
their stories in the media. On Aug. 1, 2004 this all changed. Now, we can
start organizing the approximately 14 million noncustodial parents and
their families into a huge listenership," said Farr.

KRightsRadio.com offers unique programming: fresh up-to-date reports,
interviews, breaking news, and commentary on marriage, divorce, family,
child support, paternity fraud, child custody, "visitation," parents -
anything relevant. One of Farr's goals is to increase general public
awareness of pervasive damaging stereotypes and policies that have led to
adverse consequences for families and fatherhood, and therefore for
taxpayers and society as a whole. Farr envisions KRightsRadio as an
instrument for positive change.

Why a station devoted to children's and family rights?

Farr says, "There is a huge hunger and need for this. We're tapping into
new territory." Farr added, "We anticipate a swift and tremendous reach.
People in general will be fascinated with the surprising truths and
astonishing stories that many will hear for the very first time. What is
happening daily to good families is simply mind-boggling. Too many
noncustodial parents, mostly fathers, are dead bolted, unfairly locked out
of their children's lives. They need somewhere to air their grievances and
work for positive change."

According to Farr, KRightsRadio.com's unique, and sometimes controversial,
fresh programming is aimed to counterbalance a negative view of men and
fathers that has become prevalent throughout our culture and society. He
would also like policymakers and family experts to tune in. "Too many
families and children are suffering under unfair policies that stand
today. We're going to expose the injustices," says Farr.

Experts and scholars in the field, including attorneys, psychologists,
researchers, activists, and others are being interviewed for the
broadcast. Farr plans to interview celebrities and media correspondents
covering issues of interest to KRightsRadio's target audience.

On KrightsRadio.com you'll hear stories like that of Texas dad, Morgan
Wise, who was featured in a New York Times article and was interviewed on
Fox News Channel's, "The O'Reilly Factor." After many years, Morgan Wise
discovered that 3 of 4 of his beloved children were not his biologically.
Amazingly, at one point, a family court judge issued an order preventing
Morgan from visiting his children, including even his biological child,
while enforcing a court order for child support.

"Not only are we hoping to be an information clearinghouse and become a
voice for families, we are hoping to become a useful tool for grassroots
activism and unity of effort. I'm starting a list of listeners - I call it
a 'constituency list.' We know there are millions of us out here. Now
we're going to prove it," said Farr.

Any radio station wishing to have access to the rapidly growing
KRightsRadio.com audience and programming will be able to get the feed
from the station by contacting Richard Farr at: 817-223-0126.

"The potential reach of this station is tremendous. There is a hunger for
this information and for custodial and noncustodial families suffering in
the family courts and child support agencies to have a voice.
KRightsRadio.com fills a niche, and I expect it will continue to grow very
rapidly. Farr has a major success on his hands," said news commentator
Roger Crition.

For more information, visit http://www.krightsradio.com or e- mail Richar'
Farr at: [email protected]

Click on "Broadcast Stream" to hear live programming at various times of
day.

Richar' Farr is available for media interviews regarding the launch of
KRightsRadio.com

Please call 330-534-8948 or send an e-mail to [email protected] to arrange
an interview.

http://www.usnewswire.com/

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/ 2004 U.S. Newswire 202-347-2770/


"Children learn what they live"
#273
Father's Issues / CBS-Move Aways
Aug 13, 2004, 11:35:09 AM
CBS Morning News would like to interview a move-away family anywhere in the
country, that is, a mom and dad, and their child who is old enough to
verbalize about the move-away.  If you are part of such a family, or know of
one, contact Aurelia Grayson at CBS at [email protected].
CBS saw the front page New York Times article on move-aways Sunday, August
8, which quoted CRC.

"Children learn what they live"
#274
http://www.mensnewsdaily.com/archive/newswire/news2004/0704/newswire072304-moveaway.htm

Dr. Laura Joins Campaign Against Unrestricted Move-Aways

July 23, 2004

MND NEWSWIRE

Nationally-syndicated radio talk show host Dr. Laura Schlessinger
announced her support this week for a popular parents' campaign against a
California bill that would permit children to be moved hundreds or
thousands of miles away from their noncustodial parents after divorce. The
Alliance for Children Concerned About Move-Aways  has organized opposition
to the bill.

Schlessinger read a letter from a listener whose children were moved from
Los Angeles to the Midwest despite the custody evaluator's judgment that
he is a good parent and that the move would be detrimental to his
children.

Schlessinger,  who has a weekly audience of 12 million and is heard on 300
stations, has been highly critical of the 1996 Burgess decision, which
granted California custodial parents almost unlimited rights to move
children. In deciding LaMusga earlier this year the California Supreme
Court stressed that the best interests of children must be considered when
weighing a move, and that children's relationship with their noncustodial
parents is an important component of their best interests.

The new legislation put forth by Senate President Pro Tem John Burton
(D-San Francisco) would amend California Family Code 7501 to "abrogate
[LaMusga] in its entirety" and establish that "the custodial parent has a
presumptive right to change the residence of the child and does not need a
court order allowing him or her to do so."

Sacramento has been bombarded with protests since KMPC Los Angeles radio
talk show host Glenn Sacks kicked off the campaign on his July 18
broadcast. He said:

"The radical feminists behind this anti-child bill try to portray those
who value the bonds between children and their noncustodial parents as
fringe elements with little support. But could their groups generate over
700 calls and letters? I doubt it. They're not the mainstream, we're the
mainstream."

"The LaMusga decision is a very moderate decision, and ACCAMA is a very
moderate organization. We acknowledge that there are certainly times when
move-aways should be permitted, such as in cases of dire economic need or
domestic violence, or when noncustodial parents show little interest in
their children or do not avail themselves of their visitation time.

"What ACCAMA does oppose are frivolous, selfish, vindictive, or bad faith
moves which tear children away from loving noncustodial parents.
Move-aways are frequently used to drive noncustodial parents out of their
children's lives."

According to Garrett C. Dailey, who represented Gary LaMusga in the
California Supreme Court, "children of divorced parents who have two
primary parents in their lives do better in school, are better adjusted
and happier than children raised by only one primary parent."

Many prominent mental health professionals have endorsed ACCAMA's campaign
to preserve LaMusga, including: Carol Silbergeld, LCSW, BCD, Director of
the Children of Divorce Project of the Los Angeles  Child Development
Center, Dr. Linda Nielsen, Professor of Adolescent Psychology &  Women's
Studies at Wake Forest University;  Sanford L. Braver, Ph.D., Professor of
Psychology at Arizona State University; and Jayne A. Major, Ph.D.,
Executive Director of Breakthrough Parenting Services in Los Angeles.

Report filed by By Pat Cangelosi

#275
Dear Working Families e-Activist:

Today the U.S. House and Senate reconvene for the last three-week session before the Bush overtime pay take-away goes into effect on Aug. 23.


After more than a year of lobbying with letters, faxes, e-mails and phone calls it comes down to this: will we be able to put enough pressure on senators and members of Congress during July to make them block the overtime pay take-away? The answer is up to us. If we act together we could make a difference.


Please take one minute right now to send a free fax to your members of Congress and senators by clicking on the link below.
http://www.unionvoice.org/campaign/fax4otpay


Tell them to act to block Bush's overtime pay take-away. Potentially millions of America's workers—earning as little as $23,600 a year—will lose much needed income they use to take care of everyday needs like health care, housing costs and even food.


The final regulation that would take away overtime pay from millions of America's workers was issued by the Bush administration in April. Effective Aug. 23, employers may begin to reclassify their employees as exempt—denying them the right to overtime pay. That is why action right now is so important. Click below now or keep reading for more information.
http://www.unionvoice.org/campaign/fax4otpay


Even if you have acted before we need your help right now. After you send your fax to your senators and members of Congress please forward this e-mail to your friends, family or co-workers or click below to spread the word.
http://www.unionvoice.org/campaign/fax4otpay/forward/


Here is a timeline of the upcoming fight to save overtime pay.


July 6-23: The U.S. House and Senate will meet to deliberate on several issues. During these deliberations there will be votes on the Bush overtime pay take-away. Please stay alert for the exact dates.


Mid-July: Economic Policy Institute will release final analysis of new overtime pay regulations—predicting how many workers will lose their right to overtime pay effective Aug. 23.


July 23: U.S. House and Senate recess until September.


Aug. 23: Bush overtime pay take-away goes into effect. Employers may begin reclassifying employees as exempt.

Please fax your senators and representatives today by clicking below.
http://www.unionvoice.org/campaign/fax4otpay


Don't forget: please forward this alert to your friends, family and co-workers.


Thanks for all you do.


In Solidarity,


Working Families e-Activist Network, AFL-CIO
July 6, 2004


P.S. For more information on the Bush overtime pay take-away click on the link below.
http://www.saveovertimepay.org/bushproposal.htm
 

 

#276
NATIONWIDE INVESTIGATION INTO CPS!!!

Please spread the word far and wide!

Forwarding from Dennis Hinger - California American Family Rights
Association (CAFRA)- Proud Member of AFRA
//www.familyrightsassociation.com

"I Just Received Official Verification That, All 128 San Bernardino
Case Files Are Now In The Hands Of The HHS Subcommittee.

A New Bi-Partisan House Committee IS NOW BEING FORMED TO DO A
NATIONWIDE INVESTIGATION INTO CPS!!!

WE WON!! WE HAVE OUR NATIONWIDE INVESTIGATION!!!

This is not all our doing, we had unknown help from an organizationwe have been bumping heads with at the local San Bernardino Level.
But The National Grandparents For Children's Rights was very helpful
in getting us to this point!!!! They were hitting one side while we
hit the other and as a result both sides caved and got together and
we now have our investigation.

I also would like to see a fax and e-mail campaign to Congressman
Joe Baca for all his help and efforts in getting us to this point.
Congressman Baca is up for Re-Election This Year and I Feel AFRA
Needs To Publicly Endorse His Re-Election Campaign...Dennis"

Folks, it is time for everyone to begin preparing your affidavits
and evidence books for participation in this nationwide
investigation.

Affidavits
http://familyrightsassociation.com/campaigns/affidavit_drive/

Evidence books (from an old post, ignore the date! s and deadline info)
http://familyrightsassociation.com/news/archive/2004/mar/march_19th_e
xtension.htm

More details to follow..

**********

To thank Congressman Joe Baca, please send your message to:

201 North "E" Street, Suite 102
San Bernardino, CA 92401-1517
(909) 885-BACA (2222)
or e-mail
http://www.house.gov/writerep/ - Form
Select California as your state
Use 92401-1517 as your zip

We are all making this journey together. Let's join hands and give
each other the strength and courage to see it through to the end.

J. Holderbaum
//www.childprotectionreform.com



#277
Father's Issues / Sharing a 'Funny'
Jun 27, 2004, 03:30:15 PM
Thought this group might appreciate this one.


A man and his wife were getting a divorce at a local court, but the custody
of their children posed a problem.  The mother jumped to her feet and
protested to the judge that since she had brought the children into this
world, she should retain custody of them.

The man also wanted custody of his children.  The judge asked for his side
of the story, too.  After a long moment of silence, the man rose from the
chair and replied: "Judge, when I put a dollar into a vending machine, and a
Pepsi comes out, does the Pepsi belong to me or to the machine?"



Don't laugh -- the man won!


"Children learn what they live"
#278
Father's Issues / 'His Side' info
Jun 23, 2004, 09:25:54 AM
My latest opinion column, US Supreme Court: Noncustodial Parents Have no Rights a Court Need Respect (Chicago Sun-Times, 6/17/04, Los Angeles Daily News, 6/16/04) (co-authored by family law attorney Jeff Leving) concerns the new US Supreme Court decision in the "Under God"/Pledge case.

Views on the significance of the ruling differ. Several legal scholars, including Catherine Ross and Jonathan Turley of George Washington University Law School and Erwin Chemerinsky of USC feel that the ruling's impact on noncustodial parents will be significant. Others believe it will be minimal. Either way, the ruling is a slap in the face to 14 million noncustodial parents.

I urge you to express your opinion on the issue and the column--write to the Chicago Sun-Times regarding "High court deals supreme blow to noncustodial fathers" at [email protected] and to the Los Angeles Daily News regarding "Court hurts kids while it ducks issue" at [email protected]. Feel free to copy me on your letters.

My co-authored column National Fatherhood Initiative's Ad Campaign Insults African-American Fathers was published this week in the Pasadena Star-News &Affiliated Papers (6/14/03) and has been causing some controversy.

National Public Radio's Tavis Smiley picked up on the column and hosted a debate between my co-author, Reginald Brass of My Child Says Daddy, and Roland Warren, the president of the National Fatherhood Initiative, who helped create the billboard campaign. You may recall that Reggie and Roland previously mixed it up on His Side--see National Fatherhood Initiative Attacks Black Fathers (4/25/04). To hear the NPR audio of "Do Fatherhood Initiative Ads Insult Black Men?" click on Tavis Smiley.

To write to Tavis Smiley about the show with Reggie and Roland Warren, write to [email protected]. To write to the Pasadena Star-News & Affiliated Papers re: our NFI piece--titled "It can be hard to be daddy with mommy running interference" in the Star News, click here.

My column Powder Attack on Tony Blair Done in Service of a Just Cause (Cybercast News Service, 5/25/04) was just published in the Fredericksburg Free Lance-Star under the title "After the divorce, the pain for noncustodial dads goes on and on." Feel free to express your opinion on the piece to the Star at [email protected].

I was quoted on men's health in a Washington Times piece concerning the National Coalition of Free Men's National Men's Rights Congress in Washington, DC. The article, authored by Brett Freeman, was called A man's rights on Fathers' Day (6/20/04). To learn more about the men's health crisis, see my column When Men's Health Doesn't Count (Norfolk Virginian-Pilot, 10/9/02) (coauthored by Dianna Thompson of the National Family Justice Association). The National Men's Rights Congress last weekend was a big success--thanks to all of the organizers, particularly Tom Golden.

The archive of last night's His Side--Liz Taylor's Son-in-Law Says Taylor, Daughter Kidnapped His Two Year-Old Son--is available--click here and scroll down to "Listen to the Show." We had a rebroadcast show because I was in Washington, DC.

To help support His Side with Glenn Sacks, click here. To get CDs of all previous and future shows, go to the His SideStore. To support the advertisers who support the show, go to His Side Advertisers. To advertise on the show, go to [email protected].

Best Wishes,
Glenn Sacks
Listen to His Side with Glenn Sacks
GlennSacks.com

PS To be removed from this e-list, go to [email protected]





Liz Taylor's Son-in-Law Says Taylor, Daughter
Kidnapped His Two Year-Old Son




Thomas McKeown, Elizabeth Taylor's son-in-law and the estranged husband of Maria Burton, says that Taylor has conspired with his wife to abduct his two year old son and has kept the boy hidden from him. McKeown, who has not seen his little son since October of last year, was booted out of his son's life after his wife got a restraining order against him for alleged emotional abuse.

McKeown, a 49 year-old Wall Street executive, has been arrested twice for violating the order in efforts to "find out where my son was, who was caring for him, and find out about his well-being." According to Taylor's representatives, the boy is being held at an undisclosed location near Taylor's Bel Air mansion in the Los Angeles area. McKeown says he is preparing to file kidnapping charges against the wealthy 72 year-old actress.

Restraining orders based on vague accusations of "emotional abuse" or spurious domestic violence charges are a weapon commonly used by mothers to drive fathers out of their children's lives. Mike McCormick, Executive Director of the American Coalition for Fathers and Children is helping McKeown fight to get his son back. Seattle family law attorney Lisa Scott, the founder of Taking Action Against Bias in the System (TABS), is an expert on the abuse of restraining orders. McKeown, McCormick, and Scott joined Glenn on His Side with Glenn Sacks on Sunday, April 11. To listen to the show archive, click here and scroll down to "Listen to the Show."

To learn more about how restraining orders based on spurious charges of domestic violence are used to separate fathers from their children, see Stephen Baskerville's No Restraint on Restraining Orders (Human Events, 8/5/02) and listen to Father Spends 3 Months in Jail for Returning Phone Call (His Side, 9/7/03) and Heroic Los Angeles Father Risks Jail Rather than Lose His Daughter (His Side, 4/13/03).

To find out more about police and judicial anti-male bias in domestic violence-related matters, see Glenn's column Baseball Player's Domestic Violence Arrest Demonstrates How Men are Presumed Guilty in Domestic Disputes (Los Angeles Daily Journal, San Francisco Daily Journal, 8/8/02).

His Side with Glenn Sacks can be heard on KMPC AM 1540 in Los Angeles at 9 PM PST and on KKOL AM 1300 in Seattle at 11 PM every Sunday evening. To listen live via the Internet from anywhere in the world, go to Listen Live. Both radio and Internet listeners are encouraged to call and participate in the show live and on the air at 1-800-770-1540. All callers will be mailed a free CD of the show in which they appeared at their request.

To help support His Side with Glenn Sacks, click here. To get CDs of all previous and future shows, go to the His Side Store. To support the advertisers who support the show, go to His Side Advertisers. To advertise on the show, go to [email protected].

//www.HisSide.com

"Children learn what they live"
#279
Yesterday, I was on my way to work. At four in the afternoon, their DJ's
were discussing a case of child custody and the court records were sealed to protect the child.

Out of the blue, the DJ says 'why do fathers want their kids anyway, let the mother have them'

This is a station coming out of Chicago, Q101FM. I am not sure how far reaching their broadcast goes. Most of Illinois, Indiana and Wisconsin.

One of their most popular DJ's is MANCOW. Maybe some of you have heard of him.

I have already written a number of complaints voicing my opinion. They need to hear from more. This was total crap and extremely bias.  

Anyone who would like to give them a good WTF, here it is
http://www.q101.com/info/contact.aspx
#280
Father's Issues / Anyone from Illinois?
Apr 04, 2004, 05:54:46 PM
Just making the effort to keep this in the minds of anyone from Illinois.
 
http://www.petitiononline.com/60606mb/petition.html


This petition has just been posted for the State of Illinois. I hope anyone from Illinois will take a moment and sign. Pass it along to everyone you know in this State. This is soooo long overdue.

"Children learn what they live"
#281
The Counties are Crawford or Venango in Penn. This is for a friend who is really in need of finding a good attorney, ASAP.

He can really use some help! THX
#282
Just read where he is being asked to take a DNA test. Interesting...
#283
Father's Issues / I NEED IMPUT PLEASE
Jan 12, 2004, 10:34:20 AM
Posted this with Soc but would like opinions please.

Few months back, had a custody evalution. Was not in my favor, but did find me fit. Evaluator strongly suggested placement with mother, even though I am in a much better position. Also would lose a lot of time with my son with the recommendation from evaluator. Had major doubts on how it was handled. Did the research and found many errors on what took place. Filed a complaint with the State board. They found 2 violations on the evaluator.

My question is, should I persue the complaint and bring up charges?. My trial is set for next month and I do not want to mess things up.

Investagator informed me it might have an impact on the custody trial.

 

#284
Father's Issues / I'M MAD AS HELL
Dec 30, 2003, 11:45:00 PM
Just saw a website for the State of Illinios that is posting dead beat parents.

Someone should start one for the Custodial Parents who deny Parenting Time to the Non-Custodial.

Any other States doing this?

This burns my a$$!!!

I pay every cent, every week and still I get denied time.

I sent a reply to this site and also sent a letter to the Governor.