that is messed up can they do this in any state my ex has taken of with my son recently I have bipolar but I am on medications the judge didnt realy say anything about it infact my ex didnt show to the court hearing and my case was dismissed I havent seen my son for five months now I am fighting like hell to get him but every where I go I get the run around or they refuse to help this is my first and only child I didnt think this would happen to me and now that it has everyone treats me like a dead beat father or that I have no rights