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I think that she will have to prove that he was served the papers for the court.  It could be and looks like perjury.  If she was trying to pull a fast one over on the court, then the court will probably not like the fact that the court was lied to.  

You need to look at the affidavit on file.  How and who signed the affidavit?  Call them into court to explain.

It helps to give your state at least for people to help your better understand the various state laws that apply.


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I noticed this right away...

"For this past month and a half we have attempted to reconcile....we actually began living together again. Things were going fine I was taking and picking my daughter up from daycare. She was leaving my daughter with me while she went out and everything. "

and

"She has said that if I want to see her it will have to go back to supervised visitation."

So she wants her cake and eat it too.

I would notify the court of the numerous times where you were left with the child and "NOT" supervised.  It appears that the mother is playing games with the court too.  I would suggest to the judicial authority, whether it be a judge or commissioner, that visitation be liberal and unsupervised.  Because, if the mother truly felt that visitation needed to  be supervised then she would have NEVER allowed you to be with the child in the interim time that you two were attempting to reconcile.

All of a sudden she is afraid?  Preposterous. She is definitely and evidently using the supervised visitation as a whipping post. Don't stand for it.  If the judicial authority cannot see this fact, then please post his or her name and county and state, so that he/she can be called on it.

But you are right... you need to act quickly.

I'm not an attorney or liewyer.  You should have one though.  

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So...

It's not her lying?....It's him? (the live-in fiance)

To me it's still fraud.  Common sense just doesn't come into play in the real-life application of government aid to mothers.  For real though... you know that a fiance is EXPECTED to foot the bill.  Or is that statement sexist?

I wouldn't attack this aspect of her honesty in court and public welfare, because it could make you look like you want to deprive a poor single mother and her children of the basic necessities. (rotflmao)

It's MAMA time.

I wouldn't necessarily change the subject.  I would let him talk about it as much as he wants to talk about it. I wouldn't elaborate on this issue, however.  I would let him take the role of informing you of his other brother.  It seems that he brings up the topic and when he does, I think that the best thing to do would be to listen to his statements, concerns and questions and confirm that his interest, concerns and curiosity are all valid feelings.  

Confirm to him about how much he is loved and that he has nothing to worry about.  ( he may be afraid that he may lose his two other brothers )  

I would let him take it as far as he feels that he needs to investigate and resolve this issue.

I definitely wouldn't lie to him or say anything that would make him think less of his bio mom.  Also, a quote from a good friend of mine.

"It is what it is."

Just my opinion.  
I'm not an attorney, therapist, counselor or authority on any matters.

It's...

Happy New Year Everyone.  

I hope that this is a positive year for father's, mother's, and their children.

Peace