On Monday I will be meeting with my son's counselor for the 1st time. He has only seen her a couple of times so far and goes every other week.
My ex claims that my son talks to the counselor about this or that, and usually points the finger at me, with the typical ex crap. If she wants to prove a point she claims she talked to the counselor and then pulls the 'this is what they said so this is what we should do' crap, etc. This week she claimed my son was upset about something and discussed it with his counselor. I talked to the counselor last night and it was an outright lie. My son doesn't even have an appt. until next week.
(But my ex called to talk to her about it)
I want to expose my ex-wife for what she is doing and how she is trying to manipulate the counselor. I'm sure she is trying to build a case against me as being a bad father before we go to court in a couple months.
How do I approach the counselor in a 'professional' way without giving the impression I am doing the same thing she is. I want her to be 'outed' so she can stop trying to manipulate the situation.
I tried to put my son in counseling where I live but I can't find one that will take Saturday appts.
Does anyone have suggestions for specific questions I should ask the counselor? I want to be prepared when I go in on Monday.
Thank You
My ex claims that my son talks to the counselor about this or that, and usually points the finger at me, with the typical ex crap. If she wants to prove a point she claims she talked to the counselor and then pulls the 'this is what they said so this is what we should do' crap, etc. This week she claimed my son was upset about something and discussed it with his counselor. I talked to the counselor last night and it was an outright lie. My son doesn't even have an appt. until next week.
(But my ex called to talk to her about it)
I want to expose my ex-wife for what she is doing and how she is trying to manipulate the counselor. I'm sure she is trying to build a case against me as being a bad father before we go to court in a couple months.
How do I approach the counselor in a 'professional' way without giving the impression I am doing the same thing she is. I want her to be 'outed' so she can stop trying to manipulate the situation.
I tried to put my son in counseling where I live but I can't find one that will take Saturday appts.
Does anyone have suggestions for specific questions I should ask the counselor? I want to be prepared when I go in on Monday.
Thank You