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YES! please go to "dear socrateaser" forum and look for "jazminesdaddy" and read. i completely understand how unfair the system is and how they are in favor of the mother even if shes a lying adultress murdering prostitute.

YES! please go to "dear socrateaser" forum and look for "jazminesdaddy" and read. i completely understand how unfair the system is and how they are in favor of the mother even if shes a lying adultress murdering prostitute.

YES! please go to "dear socrateaser" forum and look for "jazminesdaddy" and read. i completely understand how unfair the system is and how they are in favor of the mother even if shes a lying adultress mudering prostitute.

YES! please go to "dear socrateaser" forum and look for "jazminesdaddy" and read. i completely understand how unfair the system is and how they are in favor of the mother even if shes a lying adultress mudering prostitute.

well after this i'll leave you alone until i get back from my $2500

worthless trip out to VA. what else can you suggest besides moving out

to NC.  there HAS to be something else. i have started a business that i

cant just close down and leave

behind. I'm proud to be self employed and own my own business. this is

how i support my family. have you ever heard of a case like mine where the

father ended up getting custody? or anything close to it?  that i can read

about?  thanks again. you're really intelligent and i appreciate your

honesty!

why would SPARC encourage using this letter? and i

dont want her to sign it. i would be sending it certified so she would

have to sign the slip to get the letter which would be an ommision that

she understands specifiacaaly that i can record all conversations and

use them against her, being that ca is a all party consent state and NC

is a one party consent state.

sorry bout the language can i erase that and repost it.........i did

i was looking for evidence not authority. what if i took out the authoritive part your talking about

i got this and improvised from SPARC, is this legal? for me to send to her?

i plan on mailing these out tomorrow.

thanks again





From: Luc*
  To: *
  Date: July 11 2006

Re: Denial Of telephone Visitation

Dear ,

I'm sure you realize that I consider my time with Jazmine to be extremely special and valuable beyond measure. She is a part of my family, and these visits are an important part of all of our lives. It is unspeakable, the crime you have committed by withholding our daughter from me for 2 years. ANd then moving accross state lines with out notifying me, or the Portsmouth court. You will be held accountable for these actions and you will also be held accountable if you do not comply with court orders.

In our last hearing on this matter, visitation was ordered by the courts on this schedule:

reasonable and liberal telephone contact visitation.
We agreed on 3 times per week.Jazmine's bedtime is apprx. 8 pm, every night. And i am not to call to talk to Jazmine after this time.

In practice, however, you have failed to comply with this schedule and have put your own undue restrictions on it that are not in compliance with the court order. To demonstrate,I've included all days and times in the month of june 2006 and the beginning of July 2006 that I have called and which days you don't answer and the few times that you (actually your live in boyfriend,  * have answered:

*note- add 3 hours to get the current time in north carolina

June 4- called at 12:28 P.M., no answer
June 4- called at 12:30 P.M., no answer
June 11- called at 1:13 P.M., no answer
June 11- called at 2:16 P.M., no answer
June 13- called at 4:08 P.M., no answer
June 13- called at 4:10 P.M., no answer
JUne 18- called at 8:37 A.M., no answer
June 21- called several times as it was obvious that you were avoiding my phone calls
5:42 pm, 5:43 pm, 5:44 pm, 5:45 pm, 5:46 pm, 5:47 pm, 5:48 pm. all no answers.
June 21- called at 7:49 pm to speak with you regarding our daughter, no answer
June 21- called at 7:50 pm "                                                   "
June 22- called at 5:40 pm, no answer
June 22- called at 5:41 pm, answered and said you and Jazmine were up the street at your friends house. It was 8:41 pm north carolina time and you insisted to me before that Jazmine never stayed up past her bed time but i found  when i call and the few times *answers he says your up the street and it's always past Jazmine's bedtime.
June 23- called at 6:56 pm, no answer
June 24- called at 7:25 pm, no answer
June 24 - called at 7:26 pm, no answer
June 24- called at 7:33 pm, no answer
June 25- called at 8:39 am, no answer
June 26 is my birthday. I did't get to speak with my daughter on my bday
June 28- called at 6:39 am, no answer
June 28- called at 6:41 am, no answer
July 1- called at 10:49 am, no answer
July 1- called at 1:26 pm, no answer
July 4- called at 8:58 am, no answer
July 8- called at 7:32 am, no answer
July 8- called at 1:32 pm, no answer
July 8- called at 1:33 pm, no answer
July 9- called at 7:55 am, *answered and said you and Jazmine had spent the night at a friend's house, he stated he had 3 acres to mow and i could call back later in the day. the conversation was recorded, as all of them are. *sounded incoharent as usual.

Assuming that i was able to speak to my daughter for 15 min a day 3 times a week

Total time missed:  3 hours  

Reminder: Just as i have always told you when we speak, or i speak to your live in spouse at the time(including *THE CONVERSATION IS BEING RECORDED. ANd i will use it against you in a court of law, if applicable.

**** Your signature or your live in spouse's signature for the signed reciept of this letter and/or the copy signed reciept from your lawyer, * office,of this same letter, is an acknowledgment that you, your live in spouse, *, and Mr *8understand  that any/all conversations i hold with you or your live in spouse will be recorded.if at the time of any conversation i hold with you or your live in spouse at the time, i forget to verbally tell you or your live in spouse at the time, that the conversation is being recorded, you should automatically assume it is and everything you or your live in spouse at the time say can be used against you in a court of law.

 Because of your actions, I've had far less than my allotted telephone time with Jazmine.Your intentional failure to answer the telephone  makes it difficult on Jazmine, as she looks forward to speaking with me and i with her.

The conditions and restrictions you have placed on these telephone visits violate the court ordered schedule and are not acceptable. You have 30/31 days a  month to schedule activities for Jazmine as you see fit, please allow me to do the same with my telephone visitation days with Jazmine.

I'm willing to be flexible with the schedule (for example, when special events occur), but I expect reasonable advance notice and compensatory time every year during Jazmine's summer or christmas visits, which ever we can agree upon according to my documentation for each telephone call missed until Jazmine turns 18,(assuming i remain the NCP) . I also reserve the "right of refusal" on all such changes in the court ordered schedule. I hope that we can reach agreement on these issues without involving a third party, but understand that I will do whatever is necessary so I can spend my parenting time with Jazmine.


      Respectfully,

      Luca*


CC: Mar* my lawyer
CC: Bar* her lawyer
CC: Cyn * **circut county clerk of the court