The only way you are going to get different results is do something different.
Have you posted to Socrateaser yet? Perhaps he'd be willing to help draft a letter? Maybe a paralegal in your area would?
Absent all of the other advice : Drive down to their school and slap your court order in front of them. And the same for the dr records. Yes, I understand there's a long distance involved, but if you want results you've got to do things you haven't done yet.
Make yourself known to the school, to the drs to everyone. If they realize you ARE in your children's lives, then they won't treat you as the stranger you are.
Have you posted to Socrateaser yet? Perhaps he'd be willing to help draft a letter? Maybe a paralegal in your area would?
Absent all of the other advice : Drive down to their school and slap your court order in front of them. And the same for the dr records. Yes, I understand there's a long distance involved, but if you want results you've got to do things you haven't done yet.
Make yourself known to the school, to the drs to everyone. If they realize you ARE in your children's lives, then they won't treat you as the stranger you are.