In addition to filing for supervised visitation now for the younger one, both children should be in counseling. The younger child needs a third party to discuss the matters with and work through the issues and the older child needs the same so that they don't feel guilty about the younger child.
I would also ask for stipulation for counseling for the mother with the younger child and the father, and maybe the older one as well.
Both kids need counseling to learn that it isn't their fault and to learn coping skills.
Has the bio ever threatened not to take the older child?
I would also ask for stipulation for counseling for the mother with the younger child and the father, and maybe the older one as well.
Both kids need counseling to learn that it isn't their fault and to learn coping skills.
Has the bio ever threatened not to take the older child?