as though that $25 per "successful collection" account could do anything for deficit reduction. I read several months ago that it would take every American $29,000 to pay down the deficit....so that %25 will go far. I see it more as a tax being paid by our children.
I would be willing to pay far more if the fee went to mediation being required between parents (yeah, I know that it doesn't always work- my son's dad being resistant to mediation and anything that isn't what he wants) but we had a kick-butt mediator who was more pit bull than anything and worked with both of us very effectively....wish he could be cloned. Both sides had to give and we ended up with a workable document without going to court. The state paid for 8 hours of mediation and we ended up using 12.
I hate going to court and feel it's a lose-lose prospect.
I would be willing to pay far more if the fee went to mediation being required between parents (yeah, I know that it doesn't always work- my son's dad being resistant to mediation and anything that isn't what he wants) but we had a kick-butt mediator who was more pit bull than anything and worked with both of us very effectively....wish he could be cloned. Both sides had to give and we ended up with a workable document without going to court. The state paid for 8 hours of mediation and we ended up using 12.
I hate going to court and feel it's a lose-lose prospect.