I would try and tape the phone calls...ask your lawyer tomorrow (after you tell them about what the kids said). The kids probably are asking a lot of questions about moving, away from daddy and she is not handling it in the best way. Your DH should just tell the kids "don't worry about that stuff, the grown-ups will take care of it and I love you very much..." and then change the subject.
Glad she called ! At least you know they are there....
Glad she called ! At least you know they are there....