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#11
Visitation Issues / whoops, looks like I can't...
Jul 26, 2006, 11:00:08 AM
I guess cuz it's a different board. Oh well.
#12
Visitation Issues / whoops, looks like I can't...
Jul 26, 2006, 10:59:37 AM
I guess cuz it's a different board. Oh well.
#13
the system is hiccuping, did it for me too.  I'll delete all except primary (first) posts so as not to clutter up this thread.  
#14
I know your belief system, she's there with you, ya know. Talk to her.  

(((((AMY))))))
#15
Visitation Issues / hi there darlin =)
Jul 26, 2006, 10:43:19 AM
I'm so sorry things haven't improved in this front.  I don't know what to tell you, except what I've always told you; you can't force this situation, no matter how good your intentions.  If R doesn't want to do it, he's not gonna do it, and anyone griping to him about it is just gonna make his resolve stronger.  

I am sorry for Z, tho, in light of the circumstances.  He needs a father, FCOL, but R just doesn't want to be one, but I also think it may be compounding the hurt by trying to force a situation that just isn't gonna be.  That just makes Z feel even more rejected.  

I'm sending heartfelt sympathies for the loss of your mom.  We're thinking of you, always.