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I'm sorry I can't address you correctly, the format of this forum is new and I can't find your user name. Notwithstanding, a Temp Order was passed, as I said, 18mo ago by my former counsel. I was unaware of this order, nor did I sign it. The order briefly said, "I" should be supervised by my parents. Astonished, I adhered to the order for 18mo trying to get a court date. Three continuances followed until 6mo ago she suspended all visitation without a court order to do so. I wish I could just sit back and take whatever she will offer me. So far it's been nothing but a few hours in a park with my parents and her and her husband. I refuse to go anymore to those "playdates" as she so pieously calls them. These offers are no more than provaction for me to refuse. It's the point of the matter, I will not be manipulated. I must fight, and I will have her in court every three months until I see justice. I have done nothing wrong. Yes, I married someone with a problem and yes, I can see her concern. I did not deny these concerns in the courtroom, nor did my wife nor did my atty. Her concerns are fears to my X and unsubstantiated fears. I have three thousand hours of unsupervised parenting time with my child and not one allegation of harm has ever been brought up against me.  My child is MY responsibility not my wifes. My child will never be left alone with my wife nor is there any reason that she should be.  Anyways, thanks for your input and yes, it's a uphill battle it's been so for four years.

My legal battle has been ongoing for four years. My last court date was this month in which case the circuit judge said he'd think about the decision. That was dec 12, still no decision. I feel the judge is partial to my X and her wealthy family. My X told the judge, "if you want then go ahead and hold me in contempt." I couldnt believe my ears.
She has broken all but just a few of the orders in the original divorce decree, recently moving my child over 100 miles away and not notifying me until three weeks later by letter. She ordered me supervised visitation over 18mo ago, my former attorney whom i have a open case with the Prof Conduct Committee, signed this order and I didnt even know about it until my x told me and mailed me a copy.
This all stems from my new wife of two years who has a felony, she served 9 months in a state rehab and since her release shes working, staying sober and paying her fines. When my wife got out of rehab my x suspended all visitation on her own accord. I have only seen my five yr old child four hours in 8months, in a park with her and her newly wed husband peering over my shoulder, so belittling.
I'm flat broke after this last case. Prior to the hearing and with my attorney still on record, i personally drew up and filed request for admissions, production of documents, and interogatories of which she failed to answer nor the motion to compel that i also filed. The judge ignored this. My atty says the judge has 120 days to make a decision on our last case. My questions are: where can i find good legal books and perhaps free legal custody help.
This is a circuit judge of Arkansas. Can i ask for another judge if he doesnt abolish this absurd supervised order ive been given.  My x requested that i only get six hours supervised visits per month. I have no criminal background, in fact i work for the state as a correctional officer, watching over murderers and rapists, carrying out the mandates of the court. Why did my motions not recognized, can i refile the motion to compel? I want to depose her but im finding it very difficult to interpret the law and correctly depose. My x eavesdroppes all our calls and my child doesnt even want to talk to me. She calls my x new husband daddy and me by my first name. This has obsessed me, this injustice. How can someone be so wrong and be rewarded for it. I had to turn off my internet so im using a library, please give me a few days to reply. Your help is appreciated.