as far as i know, the school placed her in advanced classes without discussing it with us.
we have always had conflict. it has gotten much worse over the past two years.
there was an incident that happened and involved the kids that occurred in january of 07... this is when the children began showing problems.
prior to that, the previous psychologist that he unilaterally chose to take them to (for court purposes) stated that they were very well adjusted. i had already told him that i didn't feel that they needed therapy and felt it was detrimental to burden them with it unnecessarily. i just allowed it to see what would happen.
the incident in 07...... he accused my husband of sexual abuse. again unilaterally taking the children to another psychologist to get dcf involved.
but he made a mistake and dcf ended up investigating him.
so, he really blew up in the therapist's office.
during this incident he involved the children by playing them against each other. asking DD if she showered with DD. she told him 'no way. that's gross.'
according to her... BF then told her that her brother told him that happened. she told me she knew he was lying and felt he was trying to tear us apart.
her brother walked in and her her tell me part of this and was upset to hear it.
he also interrogated our son. he had gotten in trouble at school about a note. the therapist feels he was shamed.
basically, they haven't been the same since.
we have the FCAT (florida) and whether or not their grades are good, if they fail the FCAT they do not go on to the next grade.
we have always had conflict. it has gotten much worse over the past two years.
there was an incident that happened and involved the kids that occurred in january of 07... this is when the children began showing problems.
prior to that, the previous psychologist that he unilaterally chose to take them to (for court purposes) stated that they were very well adjusted. i had already told him that i didn't feel that they needed therapy and felt it was detrimental to burden them with it unnecessarily. i just allowed it to see what would happen.
the incident in 07...... he accused my husband of sexual abuse. again unilaterally taking the children to another psychologist to get dcf involved.
but he made a mistake and dcf ended up investigating him.
so, he really blew up in the therapist's office.
during this incident he involved the children by playing them against each other. asking DD if she showered with DD. she told him 'no way. that's gross.'
according to her... BF then told her that her brother told him that happened. she told me she knew he was lying and felt he was trying to tear us apart.
her brother walked in and her her tell me part of this and was upset to hear it.
he also interrogated our son. he had gotten in trouble at school about a note. the therapist feels he was shamed.
basically, they haven't been the same since.
we have the FCAT (florida) and whether or not their grades are good, if they fail the FCAT they do not go on to the next grade.