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czar


it would be helpful in supplying you with some information to know what state you are in and where the kids are.


some states have more online resources than others and do it yourself information to get you started.

rini

czar


it would be helpful in supplying you with some information to know what state you are in and where the kids are.


some states have more online resources than others and do it yourself information to get you started.

rini

hugs to you also

email still the same

[email protected]

rini

Hello Nosonew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

give me a holler i can provide you with so much help with this

first of all download form 4506 form the irs web site

lets chat soon

rini

      //www.divorcecenterofnj.com/pages/home/index.html

go to contact us

Tap dad


Here is a big HUG  ((((((()))))))))


email me sometime  

[email protected]

we can commiserate about antidepresants and the lack of them and life with them

Hope you feel better

rini

Anyone,


I have a friend who has a son going through the usual sh&*

divorce in progress
\
visitation denial

petition for custody

no temporary order

psycho spits on him  he returns the favor.  admittedly not the smartest move but ce sera sera,....


no physical contact.

cops called  they witnessed no signs of distress thus no report.

it is mandatory to report

she files for pfa based on all kinds of bull sh%&....   stuff never happened obviously her attorney probably told her too.

first off????


he has visitation she is agreeing to meet him with child at fire station.

she has temp pfa that includes child.  


state of pa does not involve police in visitation disputes.

 should he meet her and just use recorder  (video)

or should he forgo visit until after hearing on monday?


My next question is does he file a brief in his defense or what.

any ideas???  heaing is on monday morning no time for filing a responsive plea.  just time to type a motion for temporary relief or show cause..

HELP?????


thank you all

rini

hello

i believe that the NCFC National congress for fathers and children has a Florida group.

http://www.ncfc.net/

National Congress for
Fathers & Children
NCFC - Preserving the Promise of Fatherhood
9454 Wilshire Blvd., Beverly Hills CA 90212
1-800-SEE-DADS

NCFC is a 501(c)(3) Charitable Organization with an Elected Board of Directors,
Continuously Serving the Fathers Rights Movement Since 1981
Your Nationwide Advocate for Equal Parental Responsibility and Protector of the Father-Child Relationship


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NCFC FLORIDA CHAPTER, INC.



PO Box 154
Dunedin FL 34697-0154
Contact: Mike Bennington
Official Chapter Status: July 1995
Info: 1-800-SEE-DADS



Also see: Florida Commission on Responsible Fatherhood (CORF)



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hi

not sure what you mean by do my kids get joint physical custody.

if you mean does their father have joint

then i have two answers .. my oldests father has never tried to have any contact whatsoever and has never paid support.  Never had a father figure in his life.  He has used condoms for birth control since 17 when he became sexually active.  He is almost 26 and the lessons in responsibility have worked thus far.  (fortunately he has never had a girlfriend that has decided that she was going to become pregnant regardless.)  He has been lucky enough to have this type of birth control work thus far.  (Managed to get my oldest to be responsible with out the  uhhhhhhhhhh   aspect of a father involved......  I am not afraid of discussing sex with my children.  I am however very afraid of how desperate some females are to form permanent attachments with their boyfriends.

Lets face it though if a woman decides she wants to get pregnant there really is not a whole lot a man can do about the issue.

 ( If I waited for dad to give them a sex education talk I would already have grand children.  LOL   Dad has never even so much as tossed them a football let alone attempted to discuss responsibility with them.   I began discussing these things with them pre puberty and I am not afraid to address these issues.  

My fears stem from the facts that many women get pregnant deliberately and some do so with even the remnants of what is left in a used condom.  Deliberately poking holes in them,  Not using a spermicide and substituting something that looks like it.  ect ect ect..




my two teenage sons have a father that has visitation and rarely excercises his visits.  even though he has no regular dates and is allowed to see them when ever he wants.  

The purpose of drawing up papers for the kids in the event of children in the hopefully not so near future would hopefully help enforce their rights in the event of a break up.  So they would indeed stipulate to shared custodial rights for both parties and address the standard issues that would prevent a parent from having custody.  (child abuse ect,.)

surgery would be far less painful then the results of what i have seen too many parents go through in the event of an accidental pregnancy or even planned ones.

unfortunately the forms of birth control that are options for young men are not very reliable.  Even if you keep boxes of condoms at home for them to have access to.


Until men have more control over their reproductive rights what other options are there for my sons?

Education only goes so far......

Hello

I have three sons and three daughters!!!  I have suggested to my oldest one (26) that should he decide to marry his current gf that they should enter into a premarital agreement that includes a custody / parenting agreement for their unborn children.  they currently have no such plans and i like her very much.  I just refuse to go through what i have gone through with my dh ever again with any of my children and I will protect them to the fullest extent of my abilities.

I would love to see all parties that consider having children sit down with a counselor and discuss these issues prior to jumping off the bridge into parenthood.

I also have offered to pay for vasectomies and sperm freezing for all three of my sons.  This of course will not protect them from aids but it will protect them and give them some control over their own destinies.