OK, THIS answers some of my other questions in the other section.
You have spoken to other attorneys.
You have a unique situation.
Your attorney is not going to recuse themselves because your case might make a "name" for themselves down the road.....this situation probably doesn't come up very often.
SO......what do you do.
First, take the time between now and graduation to learn all that you can about "age of majority" support in your state that has jurisdiction to include whatever Social Security there is available for a disabled young adult. You have time to get really smart about this subject. Think health insurance -- can you carry her beyond high school?
I have a friend who is custodial to her son and this child has some health issues that might make him a disabled adult. He's turning 18 soon.....she had to do something with Social Security and file something to protect a potential claim on his behalf down the road before he turned 18. So that's why I'm bringing that up.
Start looking for case files on line in the state that has jurisdiction that cover this subject.
Maybe find a law school in the jurisdiction state and see if they have a student group to assist with this (West Virginia University does).
So your child will "emancipate and graduate" at a certain date. Then file for emancipation, and Mom will have to file for age of majority support based on a disability. Get ready to ask for proof of the disability and that's when you fight this.
As for pissing mom off and therefore pissing child off.....that depends on what kind of relationship you have now as to what I'd say to do.
You have spoken to other attorneys.
You have a unique situation.
Your attorney is not going to recuse themselves because your case might make a "name" for themselves down the road.....this situation probably doesn't come up very often.
SO......what do you do.
First, take the time between now and graduation to learn all that you can about "age of majority" support in your state that has jurisdiction to include whatever Social Security there is available for a disabled young adult. You have time to get really smart about this subject. Think health insurance -- can you carry her beyond high school?
I have a friend who is custodial to her son and this child has some health issues that might make him a disabled adult. He's turning 18 soon.....she had to do something with Social Security and file something to protect a potential claim on his behalf down the road before he turned 18. So that's why I'm bringing that up.
Start looking for case files on line in the state that has jurisdiction that cover this subject.
Maybe find a law school in the jurisdiction state and see if they have a student group to assist with this (West Virginia University does).
So your child will "emancipate and graduate" at a certain date. Then file for emancipation, and Mom will have to file for age of majority support based on a disability. Get ready to ask for proof of the disability and that's when you fight this.
As for pissing mom off and therefore pissing child off.....that depends on what kind of relationship you have now as to what I'd say to do.